been hesitant due to not publish these few words, but given the variety of experiences, thoughts, feel and realize I wrote the following words for your reference, correction:
question: Why do we not succeed today ?
1, first of all we do not have their own definition of what success criteria (a ticket, car, house, wife?), unaware of their real goal is to ideal, love, money, career, family, rights, desires, or reflect the value of life, so every day we live is still repeating the days confused. Life is so monotonous, boring.
2, we do not know is that long, has the short, did not understand myself, what is missing in the end, need to make up what is good at what, what resources, knowledge, money, relationships , projects, contacts, or the times. We lack the core competitiveness and is irreplaceable (ie unique), so we often do not know what to do, not what to do. Forever blind with, a loss with.
3, we can easily turn around to others, infected by others, and not let other people want him to infected and affected people, and therefore destined to other people's thoughts into his head and his own wallet into the pockets of others, their own destiny by others firmly grasp our souls and minds have long since been washed stealing an empty, leaving only bones. That being the case then we can also count on their achievements in something.
4, superficial things that we used to see the surface of the article, all sorts of boring, same TV, hanging QQ, play games, mahjong, bubble restaurant, squatting bars, to keep leisure facilities, talking about divergent views on news speculation, but few read a few of the valuable books, rare a few valuable, less given him a few minutes Tranquil Night, a serious lack of ability to see things. So today, we are the experts, was the master of tomorrow, the day after tomorrow there is a celebrity, all around, up and down, media advertising, newspapers, magazines, television, Internet, bombarded with, in this confusing environment, we lack of basic common sense, analytical, general power, we are often disoriented, lose yourself.
5, we lack the courage and vigor, used three-point line of life, not a year Pifuzhiyong, not turning back and no return. We feel that life is very helpless, work is very monotonous, development is very limited, but often Chan of the end, dare to change themselves, too lazy to study, not a leader, not for jobs, not for work, dare not venture, not questioned, dared not resist, did not dare to express their views, not daring to take the initiative to communicate, not innovation, we are still bland, over prime natural Guawei day ordinary people, because we lack the process of the journey of life, lack of the kind that tastes really sour, sweet, bitter, spicy courage.
6, our lack of trust, cooperation, integration of resources, we are always guessing and contradictions in the life of a person is still learning to conquer the world. We rarely have true friends, help to the busy, on borrowed money, iron heart, telepathic friends often miss, usually do not burn incense crammed, we do not know how to mutual tolerance, understanding, mutual, balanced , share, mutual benefit these reasons, the so-called brother, too many fair-weather friends, distress among the people we trusted too little, too low level of trust, trust, the cost is too high, we are a mutual suspicion, mutual friction force forward. We could not find resources integration points, is not going to rational use, still laments what I can point, in the end how to do, who we know are too low level, our mind is too narrow, so many reasons, not thoroughly understand the truth We quietly made a stepping stone to it.
7, our lack of action, and execution, life, way of doing things is still day after day, year after year plain, ignorant of the living. We have wonderful ideas all the time, except there is no lack of practice, there is no sustained confidence and endurance. We can not always in the mirror, be self awake, Buddhist.
8, we summarize the lack of power, to correct power failure or a failure, error, and was still wrong with. Still does not change our habits, which developed a kind of personality, the final decision of this fate.
9, we do not know how to knit network of relationships, in fact, networking is the network structure, starting with the people you know and understand, and then people who know you from the start, the last from your friends of friends started, and so on, remember to heart and honest, person to person is equal, no high, low, expensive, cheap divided (unless you really have to ask for his / her), no great shakes , and pay attention to understand his / her background and the integration of information were very important.
10, our lack of financial management,
I do not want to miss you.. You know, often do not know what to buy, the selling, what is income and what is spending, what is the debt, what is the asset, what is invested, how to cut costs, we ignore the details of the quantitative change into qualitative change, so our cash figure is still very awkward. We do not know how to find money, make money, save money, borrow money, pay back the money, money.
11, we have a serious lack of knowledge, basic knowledge + social knowledge, that education is too low, too little experience, lack of continuous learning to add, ask an open mind, study with a teacher's ability to
lack of the Sea, Chinese and Western, liberal arts blend of quality, lack of skills, specialized and comprehensive, we still With the old method of thinking and clumsy, and we dare not doubt, challenge, innovation and new thinking.
12, we have long been the scene of debauchery, materialistic world a little restless, can not calm down, repeatedly, seriously think about their own life, every prudent step to take their own. We do not know how to manage time, reasonable use of time, punctuality. Even the boss coated age.
13, we lack a sense of joy, happiness, security, interpersonal Taileng Mo, too realistic, many families are fragmented, and many communication with tinted glasses, many circles, and others can not Many marriages sandwiched transactions, many of love is not love, affection lack of concern for many, many brothers and inserted behind the knife, we are afraid of slaves, slave car, get married, have children, illness, unemployment, human, accidents, panic day, we do not know What is happiness, do not know how to find, do not know to adjust their attitude and position, do not understand take, homes, contentment, beyond, to share, go with the flow of these things.
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Reflect the 100 photos of contemporary society, p, we do not know how to grasp the current situation, do not know how political and economic stakes, do not understand the times change, heaven, truth and mutual benefit, and the Blue Ocean Strategy Baihong Hai unknown, unknown Whitewater can also capsize the boat,
And Mind, there is no absolute friends and absolute enemy. Do not know how to follow the trend and create a trend, we still stand still, stand still.
15, Finally, we spotted the direction of fully prepared (broken ax Shen Zhou), immediately began to act, persist, persist, persist! Survive today, tomorrow will be better! Meanwhile we continue to improve themselves and to adjust themselves. May all the caring people can be successful! Inf!
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