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Reprinted from 420945408 at 15:49 on November 3, 2009 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: parenting let the children happy for the parents
nine secret, so that children have a happy disposition is the best way: the family is full of joy and warmth. In the happy family of children grow up, because the character has a happy, happy adult life to the family than the unfortunate children grow up much more.
there are 9 fun recipe below, you can try in a child:
1, time to enjoy the \parents want the room clean and tidy home, the neighbors and he likes quiet. Once their children started yelling, jumping, parents will find ways to stop, the children had become increasingly behaving. On the surface, is well-parenting, but the resulting is: the child's enthusiasm and energy in a little bit lost, the child's mind also felt depressed. But are children after all, they need to play with a childlike imagination while you work, you need to have time catching fireflies, snowball fights, watching the spider web to do, ant - which according to the child's own pace to explore the world of activities, more to the They bring true happiness.
2, children need caring
identify themselves as valuable members of the family and society,
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3, sports activities with their children
skiing, riding together, play together ... ... These activities not only improve children's health, population and allow the children to smile often open. And in the activities could help improve parent-child relationship. Good physical condition and motor skills will help children build positive self-image concept.
4,
laugh laughter, for you and your child's health is good. Some parents prefer their children to remain serious in front of the image, thinking that have dignity. In fact not the case, to laugh, and will not lose your dignity. Make your home full of laughter, and often give a child a hug, they are the best expression of love. Have not heard: \
5, more specifically the recognition
parents should emphasize the specific behavior of the child satisfying to recognize the more specific, child more clearly what is good behavior. In fact,
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recognition of more specific,
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6, the art of charm
music, dance, literature and other art forms will greatly enrich the child's ideological cultivation, culture their artistic sentiment. These art forms will become the mouth of an emotional release to help them express their feelings and the world, and derive the joy of life.
7, not demanding perfect
are children after all, the limited capacity,
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8, teach children problem-solving skills
when children think they can solve some problems, allowing them to have good self- feeling, to establish confidence and resolve their problems with courage the next time. When they encounter difficulties, you can teach them by following the steps problem-solving skills: identify problems; let the children describe the results he wanted; to help him design the steps to achieve this result; let him think, which he was able to complete his step, which step need help; in his steps really need help to help.
9, to give the child the opportunity to show their
every child has unique talents and skills and show they can give them bring great joy. \to share his love of the story of how he is happy. Children's enthusiasm, through your sharing and recognition into a good self-esteem, confidence, and these quality of their life happiness is the most valuable.
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