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71895 2010 年 06 月 08 日 12:43 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary
a good partner must be the case, but more because of you I love all the world, and I know better than before the grace of
heavy Parenting a better understanding of have their own circle of friends, but also know that many have to go in the world
wonderful thing to do. Your love I can not live up to ... ...
marriage is a beaker, into the two people actually two active elements. If you do not recognize themselves
to find another element, it is likely that you find a is a good element, but the good elements with
between you did not respond, or even produce bad reactions ... ...
prerequisite for a happy marriage: a clear understanding of their own
Hers: a happy family say similar,
cheap pandora bracelets, what do you think a happy marriage model can learn from it?
Yu Dan: good marriage there is no fixed pattern. However, before entering a good marriage, we must first understand themselves.
themselves to choose the most appropriate, not the best. Each girl has a vanity, but especially important
point is: your marriage is not the exhibits, the man of your choice, your father, your parents female
husband, your own love, your hand, has to white man. These things are no laws for others to see
.
Hers: to share your personal experience it?
Yu Dan: Marriage is a chemical reaction, not a 1 +1 physical style connection. Marriage is a beaker,
into the two people actually two active elements, what is your element, you need and what elements together will have a positive
combination reaction? If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is useful to
can you find a is a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions
.
It's like buying clothes, girls are like beautiful fashion, you have to do all the crazy clothes, buy
home? You will know that some clothes are not suitable for you. So why can not put this understanding in a marriage
it?
Hers: Many people think that love and marriage are two different things, love to find a lover, married looking for a husband
husband, do you think marriage and love can be separated from it? Marriage without love, whether it be happy?
Yu Dan: I'm a love, the supremacy of the people. Have someone to talk to me and said for years about love,
have been black and blue, just looking for a suitable person Jiadiao. I certainly do not agree. If such a marriage entered
you this man is extremely irresponsible. Do you want to just obtain, have you entered the marriage with infidelity on marriage
hard to say you will not fall in love with someone else, bring out your information and conversation
let him know, you think of his No love. This is equivalent to marriage in the choice of when you have planted the seeds of misfortune.
So then again, before entering the marriage, you need to understand who you are, you most want is
what you can so that your marriage is full of romance. A good marriage there is a romantic, and love is the source of diffuse waves
. If the marriage romance blocked the road, you would have to look outside marriage. So I say
choose what kind of marriage is happy, or choose what kind of love from the start. What you are self-
I would meet, what kind of love.
marriage is the best integration of the circle of recognition to each other, love each other's family, to accept each other's friends,
because of each other, you will love everything in this world, you know better than before the grace of Parenting thick,
even have to go in the world do know a lot of wonderful things ... ...
happy marriage of the scale: to the feet of the other three evaluation
Hers: modern women in the workplace more and more beautiful,
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marriage, what is the relative measure of the standard?
Yu Dan: The problem is I often female students and I talked about. I have always said, talking about marriage, please
certain aspects of each other to do the evaluation 3:
1, you really have a tacit understanding on the spiritual life of it? Agree on the value it? His aura is
Zhao Dezhu you so that you have a deep spiritual attachment? Love can not replace all this stuff, because you have to live life
. A special love of money and a person is not love of money together, two people would conflict with each other;
like a special friend and a special people who can not hate social coordination. The flash of light, fit
very important.
2, whether enough of your social life integration? Love is two people, but marriage is a matter of two groups of social
. Marriage is the best integration, identity circle each other, love each other's family, to accept each other
friends, because each of you to love everything in this world, you know more than ever grace
of Parenting thick, also know to operate their own circle of friends, but know have to go in the world to do many wonderful things.
such acceptance, and you will feel more roots, in addition to love, there is kindness.
3,
pandora bracelets, your ######ual harmony? This is a very important indicator. The passion between men and women,
depends on the degree of integration between the body. If your body is not understanding, then you may not be directly
to take it to say it, but the war will be a bit small. This is the marriage of the
- these three indicators as long as there is a less than 60 minutes, I think not rushed into marriage.
Hers: There is also a very popular argument is that a good marriage need to
Yu Dan: I do not pick the first door, but to pick two people understanding the values, and values education can be acquired in
formed. Good match between two people is more important than values, because each person is not
captive at home, you have to go into society, to go to work.
both me and my husband is especially not the same family environment. My father was an intellectual, cultural and historical research over the years
engaged in work, I was back ancient poetry from childhood grew up, was carefully protected. I was a father
ordinary worker, the family had four sons, you can say a particularly rough life. But I like my Basking Basking
said a word: My husband is home, the eldest of three brothers listen to him, so my husband used to
manner willing to take responsibility. My husband and marriage, though not married, but just to the symmetric and
complementary.
into the marriage, in fact, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. There is nothing
because equality of all before the bill have been torn to pieces; rich as the world is due to have love, because these two men will spend
to life ... ...
; the elements of a happy marriage: equality & tolerance & Growth
Hers: a lot of good women in the marriage will complain, I thought I lost a marriage, do you think they are the
errors where?
Yu Dan: in marriage, can not take age, status of that matter. The beginning of the marriage, the wise woman will
two people on the absolute equality of status, all of the bills are shredded before, no loss, no less. You than he 10
years old, you young and beautiful, you're better than his great reputation, you're better than his money ... ... This can not be lofty and full of
abdominal unwilling reasons.
known to have such a story: Britain's Queen Elizabeth to participate in social activities back home very late and found the bedroom door
tightly closed. The Queen stood in the door to knock on the door, the husband asked: She knocked, asked her husband, the Queen replied: Queen Elizabeth seemed to be aware of what, finally, she replied:
- This story tells us that no woman is eligible before the domineering lover. Into
marriage, the first two people are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Nothing is because equality,
all the bills have been torn to pieces, rich with love than the world because, as the two men will spend a lifetime.
Hers: tolerance is undoubtedly essential for a happy marriage index, specifically, how to interpret it?
Yu Dan: Your manners have a gentle glow, the atmosphere that you are a woman
; your heart has a large measure, that you are a happy woman.
Hers: Does this mean a woman to a large extent, to change yourself?
Yu Dan: no conflict between many of the concepts, inclusive does not mean obedience and connivance. Face in front of people to meet,
Shique two people to open private occasions. I suggest that a problem may wish to talk in the bedroom, unable to agree to a body language can also
it, there is also something intimate about later, will not upgrade to the point where the Cold War.
Need love marriage marriage which also requires wisdom.
modern society, some women the biggest myths about marriage is that they refuse to grow, according to
care of women that men are a matter of course, is bound by conscience and responsibility. Marriage is indeed a heavy responsibility and conscience
to, but its role can not be overstated. The maintenance of marriage a woman can not just rely on conscience and
responsibility, you have to have their own charm, so that their marriage has been a living, not dying to become a
convention.
Hers: the growth of women in marriage is another major element of a happy marriage it?
Yu Dan: I think the best things in this world is the growth of a person's life need to grow,
marriage of two people need to grow, which means that one can enjoy themselves without the fear of aging, because the
She has to grow, she has the weapons to contend with the time, she has confidence,
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out.
a marriage continue to grow, that is, your marriage, you never have to feel like
romantic lover. And pressure can not be lost because of busy two people's private time, to resort to casual, nothing
chat friends, chat world, evaluation of assessment experience things, talk about children and the elderly, this communication will
your relationship has been very fit.
this person as a living brain to reason, to be very responsible, the family will be running very smoothly;
as the heart of the living, we must make family a romantic, naive, a happy dream. This is a balanced mix of
... ...
the composition of a happy marriage: br> Hers: a woman's independence and a happy marriage conflict?
Yu Dan: the independence that a woman has her own world is very complete, and then she and the love marriage
only be obtained without the need for sacrifice. She can create, can stimulate new vitality, she can
to pleasure and enjoyment, but she will not be a Ku Gualian her husband with the kids that I was to you, and you must give me what
. So I think that independence does not conflict with the happy marriage, independent women that tolerance,
the less independent the less tolerant, because she felt he owed her.
Hers: you have two people to see how the division of family roles?
Yu Dan: Inside the marriage, the two roles in the family division of labor will be a casual.
Marriage is a good balance, which requires a man as a The brain alive as the man to reason, to grasp the family money,
support the elderly, children's education, etc., that people want great sense of responsibility, the family will be running very smoothly;
as the heart alive people, it is necessary to house a romantic, naive, a happy dream. Called one by
spectrum, a do not fly, is a balanced portfolio.
I do not fly often have some ideas, have been the end of July I was going and her husband, her daughter went to Japan
the holiday, her husband taking into account such factors as now the spread of influenza, and resolutely to the rejected. I will also depressed about,
but I would argue with him. I said we go to Japan, went to Dalian, it is also the beach ah,
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was her husband accepted. This is the heart and brain of game theory. He felt I was too tricky, carrying children to Chu Mu
Langma things will dry out the peak, but without me, that we have not go even in Dalian,
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, boredom, fight, nothing worth mentioning. So, is this a good marriage, heart to brain compromise
, brain on the heart has to accommodate the crazy dream, everything was harmonious.
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