Who are the blessings of married
one drinking incident
fast one year old daughter, what are strange, especially for drinking fountains switch curious, very worried about her grandmother with her has been watching and stop block, to know thatthis is very difficult matter, adults always have the time away, while the daughter is in a walker can move around inside the. So I decided not to look at the water dispenser alternate is not very precarious, by the time one to let go the water will stop, its been on tenterhooks as she looked hot to be useful once more, and soon she was to hot to, and remember this is hazardous, in a very long period of time not to go touch. By the way I told her to stop her because we have this thing is dangerous, so keep in mind that adults stop you moving everything makes sense, do not think year-old children do not understand, in fact, they will listen to understand. Well, the girl is too early to understand that the boy would come later.
II socket event
daughter presently two annuals old, on the walls channel holes are amused in, so I brought her tape recorder and told her the aperture in the wall of one cordless, a tape recorder necessary, insert the plug when the need to prop back the plastic portion of this security, if the took the before two metals are going to dead, and the plug socket with rainy hands also will die. Daughter of the dead is still very reverence, although not necessarily know the specific will happen, but in short, a very bad very grim things. In fewer than two annuals old she capable the days of plug sockets, from that day on we often call her to help me plug XX about this variety of socket, she has tugged her tape recorder to hear to this room, again and afresh to the room Listen, do not beg us to help her. Well, she was very secure to live now, not touch before electricity, I would not anxiety about her shock, I even told her, if you see a cable you ambition to know is live, you can hand back go attempt, there is power, then you will be hit would be a little pain a little murmur, but remember that the center have to not grab his hand, will meet elasticity back, no risk, will pay close care along the palm, it is a grim.
three dress for her daughter two years old suffer PP
bath are to wear their own clothes, but he wears the novelty had lost, it will try to be lazy. One day, showered, and wearing half the clothes, said to me, mother, you help me dress it. I am very happy to say, can, whatsoever conditional, to help you wear a one you let me play with it, I like to play up the PP you feel. She thought a moment agree to interchange, so I help her to wear two socks for a pair of PP, I still remember that I played two hands sore the next. After using her face is very perplexing, and I was very intoxicated PP in there to admire her how to play up the feel good, the name will make people addicted. . . . . . The next day, dressed very Hi, when I attempted to help her skin trickling clothes, and beat her repeatedly stated too fond of the feeling of PP, I hope she not give me a accident to enjoy.
course, now I have not been able to find the opportunity to enjoy.
four, his daughter home
two and a half, and also on the small class fall butme time, know how deep ruddy light stop green line rules.
there are times I took her shopping in the city center area told her that I'm going to look smooth and asked if she could know the way home, whether their own home, of course, she thought no problem, by far with me behind her, to see how she go home. Daughter very seriously at each crossing traffic lights, even in one of the intersection until the sixth green when it is over. Later I learned that she not only look green, but also over time to see if there is no other car may be red light, was accustomed by a 100% safe.
in fact responsible for their own children, when that's more responsible than adults.
five insect is very cute creatures
I was very afraid of those soft Papa's Rouchong, although conscious of this stuff is harmless, but is afraid ah.
children do not know how afraid I am selfish is to teach my daughter not afraid of the future can help block insects. Then one day a bane of peaches only, I told her wormy peaches sweeter, and that is very cute inside the insect, and fertilizer in vain, will be crawling. Daughter asked the bugs will not bite me, I answered, these insects are vegetarian, and you are sordid, too old for biting insects is also firm.
quite believe her, she caught the bug crawling around to see it in his hand, palm back and ahead to climb, creep back into the left hand right hand left hand climbing, eating the insects on the table looking piece of insects to eat, climb far away come back again to continue watching. I, I, I scream oppression in the larynx, can not make the fear of statement, if I was a little scared, from the daughter of harmless insects would have been afraid that somehow, I always remember that I is how to finish the meal.
she began to bring back a kind of domestic, massive and small caterpillars, and eventually my nerves became very lusty, and actually no longer afraid of manure soft insects, and then base some caterpillars look round the brain actually quite cartoon. We always wish will reserve out the butterflies, the fact that, all of which eventually grew into great and small caterpillars of moths.
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will ask myself every child comes from, I have been waiting, and finally she asked, and I then took her to buy two human anatomy, but also find two contour. And detailed explanation of all the organs, each organ functions, including of course the men and women's reproductive organs, she is get busy no matter how out. Conclusion is that how come in on how to go out, but came in time to the microscope to see, came out ten months after the baby is a big one. Just general knowledge only, tell the truth, I think so, so her daughter and it will adopt, is also no mystery. Was so thorough in understanding, the daughter is no longer interested, others tease her, she would look more to tell their own quiet drops get down to, everyone is so out.
7, lying on the floor crying and crying
daughter rarely accustom as a manner to fulfill their goals, because never once succeeded, after seeing on a small small success stories, so live it in one day to and we ate porridge or to a divide segment under her arrange down on the ground. Why on why we go to the family, when she was air. Like to thank my mother, she is beginning a sweeping, when sweeping to the place where her daughter lay, said to her, come to lie in the quondam that, here I want to sweep the layer, not blocked off, I play you and then lie down sweep back. Then her daughter moved to continue lying to cry, one would say, well, I put a clean sweep here, you can lie back. Two and a half old daughter actually really a place to lay back and buzzing. Our whole family went into hiding mirth. When the daughter of a half-hour of air finally found success stories of others can not succeed in her, to please get up, I feel that porridge is also good to eat, and finished his P P Britain Great Britain ran a clean to eat porridge .
Until now, I never again saw her lying on the ground tearful as a means to an end. In fact, many children doing just to test the first time on the block, there will be no second time the same basic behavior.
eight, do not eat their own losses, other than the
day before meals argue with me, put a heavy bowl on the table and said fiercely, see you on its hands, I do not eat . I immediately said, you can, but not until the next meal you can eat anything. Daughter started a little shy, to say I am not saying I do not eat, just do not eat with you, so you eat my edible again. I answered her, or eat now, or you keep the next repast and then eat, there is no third choice. She said that I do not eat Qi Gugu.
reason we ended off the stage and began grinning debate, how to have a foolish people, do not actually get to eat to threaten others, they do not eat other people are not hungry, laughable people actually get hungry they have to threaten others, ha ha ha ha ha. . . . . . . So the cost of a meal to hungry, to take her daughter to understand the harm their own to threaten others, is the silly thing. A similar thing never in her life appeared.
nine, limited toys, unlimited fun
her daughter to a big toy is extremely finite, the basic no electric, all the toys to get a large bags will be fraught up.
so little toys, not because of economy reasons, because the more children the less easy toy, the more easy to condense the attention, imagination, the more rich, more know how to adore things.
children like to play in the water, her daughter is no exception, my condition is that you can play in the water, but only to the bathroom, and play well to get yourself to the bathroom clean. A keg of a basin, an vacant Coke flask, and a funnel, a spoon can while away a whole p.m., she would with a small tub of water bottle or spoon a little morsel to get big Coke bottle, occasionally with and sometimes without the funnel, fill bottle poured into a basin, bowl full of water re-use the same means to get into the bucket, sometimes the tools of various sizes according to the basin by the bucket, fill water without water by half by adding water by, is forward by anti-a by, think of all the circumstances, a person having all the amusement, and never tired before.
small classes, the daughter can sit there an hour or two focus to concentrate on doing one thing.
Teletubbies was the preference daughter of the procedures, the market also has to sell, she liked, so I told her that she can have a birthday when she can pick one in four in the second year of Her birthday baby until a second antenna, after the long await to get things that are worth treasuring. Starting from the hour of her most want to wait for things to go through to get the longest wait for a whole year. So now she cherished for the things that are very, very clear value, and what would you want to consider carefully whether you really need.
ten, learn to write is the need to learn to write quota
The digit, and bought a Miao Hong, to the daughter, then told her that there is a quota, only a day write half a page, can not surpass.
children learn things from the start is always very interested in, and wished he could write off about half of this, wrote a very happy day when the ration ran out, closing the book out, find needless, only write tomorrow. Then adult a habit to write out a half page every day until a certain pleasure. Very relaxed and happy to complete this process, learn to write numbers.
key is to maintain the mystery, has been suspended by her, bring her interest and curiosity, to find her learn to write, she turned to ask you to write more, but must not be promised, continue to use quotas to hanging her until the task is completed.
XI, less than two years old daughter to share
(suddenly found that the most of the corrective actions have occurred in the shape less than three years old) her grandmother often thronged to buy shrimp fried shrimp for her to eat, there are times I have seen, took a few try chopsticks, my daughter said, how do you eat the shrimp. I replied, Who is your shrimp, picked up the spoon to eat spoonfuls of half of severely daughter respond, rush to grab me to eat, but how she grabbed me, how to grab me. . . . . . Hey! Daughter looked out the shrimp bowl empty tears down, I told her, something no one can eat, nothing is a person you, how to eat to how we want to eat. From that day where she likes to eat a certain point I must go half the children is a good education, she soon got used to share.
sometimes see she liked to eat, we want her to eat a little, I would say that this pain can not bite anything, or I do not like this matter. . . . . . And so looks reasonable excuse, do yourself a favor to help me eat it, must seek to use her breath, she felt she was engaged helping you (of course such things can not be doing too much, more on the senseless), then her daughter would eat happily, this is abrupt to be happy. If you have not learned to share, the child will think he deserves, and do not feel happy, but by the time someone points out even a small buffer are angry; and Xiguan share to a child even now it is to eat more occurrences and will feel happy. Eat less does not affect the life, know how to share, easy to be happy state of mind will behalf children for life.
XII himself get
relatively small, (really forget what year, but it must be less than three years old) to take her downstairs after dinner to play every day, many children on the square, some children will bring some toys down, sometimes like to play without her say, begged me to help her to say. Of course, I flatly refused, telling her that this is something you want to play, or play your own to discuss borrowed, or do not play. Endure a few days, and finally she had to borrow his first step out of the same play, of course, sometimes lend, but most of the time or successfully borrow. As long as a success, and it was much easier after the children are Zilai Shu biological ah. She later found with a kind of toy down, play with people switching to more easily play want to play their own stuff, well, you get.
XIII, the failure of talent training
small children altogether dependent on adults to survive, they can not defend themselves, so the old days to give them a gift, that is nice to magistrate the tone to differentiate adult, slightly larger living environment they will observe the subtle, even a little microscopic changes can be found, which is the normal or animal instincts, because they can not protect themselves, so very sensitive to environmental alteration. When a child two years old, when almost all of the children's parents will find very observant, and almost never forget, then parents will be pleasantly startled, but soon, when they grow up, growing capabilities, talent will gradually vanish, how to keep it this meteoric talent.
this point, I was a failure, the method is simple, but sustained at least six years old. . . . . . Unfortunately, the opportunity will not have missed.
every night reading a fable to the children, when children will be prologue lecture, let him repeat the fable came out yesterday, could not speak to read it again (please believe that the child's memory of talent), to repeat them to continue reading the next period, from short to long day after day, consistently, 56 years old, you will find that the child had the ear can not forget, the night before the big stories in listening to it again the next night you can almost verbatim on the back out. The latter part of the story because you can completely back out, put up their own books to read, according to the book of word admission is simply a natural thing. This requires a strong parental patience and insistence (blame a thousand times), every child in fact never forget the genius.
my cousin was successful, after I failed to understand her parents she was more mighty in mandate to build such a genius.
fourth, fell, bleeding
daughter on the outdoor fell, got up and found a lot of broken skin, bleeding, and nervous. I squat observation, smiling and said to her, ah, bleeding, and we go back and find a bowl of this blood fraught up it, it can blaze jug soup of blood, it is up to, do not waste friends. Look on her strained nerves relaxed.
home, I help her out of alcohol disinfection, talk to her shows, this is used to disinfect, put on broken skin may be painful, but it, could not bear the pain, the wound may become infected, Maybe this piece of mutton will rot, to meat out a more painful time, or bacteria into the blood had sepsis, it will die. Daughter thought, said, that you fumigate it, I can tolerate it.
fifth, on a small dental
small daughter, finally leave the bottle dangling from his sleeping habits, but her two front teeth because of long steep in the milk, the bore out the point, So what I plan to take her to the repair, the more boring the greater province.
informing her that her teeth bore out that, if I were you addressed, will develop lasting damage to her, if you take her to mend teeth, treatment time may be a little pain would be a blood, but all not too caustic, then asked her, you see, is not going to fix it. Daughter agrees. Sit in the dentist's seat, the physician can not start, I had to surface again when the doctor asked her once again to be sure, the doctor globe trembling hands, her mouth open the whole process the lumber is generally stationary, and then told me that you said you would a little pain, and that was not pain. I saw a lot riding on the chair like a peddler as a child, the doctor is incapable to meet such a chilly opposition the teeth of the children to fill. Why be so chilly
daughter, because I informed in advance may happen, such as pain, such as bleeding, she had prepared, also not afraid. Resistance may be more children crying not because of pain, but the instinctive fear of the nameless damage.
so do not muse small children, deceive ashore it, they will remember you fool, ambition not confidence you, next period lie not so simple. Do not underestimate the capacity of the child, telling the truth will make them trust you extra, so that the pain they may be psychologically prepared, they can bear the pain is very small beings. XVI corporal discipline
then behaved children, there will provoke the parents to bristle, hoping to teach a slap shot when he died, Otherwise, it is not a child is a puppet.
One day, I am worried they will not help her a slap down in front, good birds out of the heart the jaws climate. But the inflame is so, or undergo internal injuries may be, it will be as soon as the Yellow River dam hands, then buffet Shou could not blow hand, numerous parents an pardon to blow for the child, in fact, more to their own hearts expiration. This is his daughter, so only interior injuries.
I said to her daughter, the last to prompt you once, I'll hit you if you perpetrate, and commit a beat, made two hit double, the third play looked, each doubled. Daughter said, no. I said, appended conditions, punishment is good when you have your pants off beating the bed, if you nay, then I caught a hit, beat or two changes, two changes play looked, in short twice.
she dare me, dare me, challenge me. . . . . . Finally, I let her free to pick a place discipline, she picked a room, and onlookers not removed, lock the door, beating their pants off. For her, this is a very disgraceful thing, but it is also a very effective way to penalty, under normal circumstances at a time a reminder set the rules, to lest distinct humiliating beating, it will comply with regulations.
-year-old see the old phrase goes, I see
often heard, but do not quite understand, her daughter was born, slowly found in education, the ancients really too TMD (accent additional) sage up.
to tenderness education specialists say, to give children reason. Children less than three years old, understand the major principles it? Maybe. But more important is not so small children to reason, the most important is to build rules, one-year-old child will understand the If the child is erroneous, then even small children can not tolerate, we must immediately stop and correct and navigate their behavior, do not believe her children will know why this argument, by the time it firmly in the first block mistake, the child will soon understand and make the right behavior. Once the child's deviant behavior and then develop a habit much more difficult to stop, the child will be disturbed. Within three years old, most children have fashioned habits, if you often correct the alteration started, you do not post again for a failing of skirmish, the follow-up of education also will be farther by. XVII embroidery or dancing
day, her daughter's grandmother said to me, you come to speak with her, she is more compliant to listen to your words, kindergartens do extra-curricular classes, Why let her girls to learn to dance the best, but she refused to go to embroidery. I called her and asked her, is not to the extra classes, she said, I said, what classes you want on it, her daughter said, I want to learn embroidery, I have not had it embroidered, but the grandmother let me to learn to dancing. I: No reason grandmother, that is your school, not her to go to, what class you want is your liberty, others have no control, but since it is your choice, you must be responsible for themselves, we learn. Period, the daughter regret to say, I just embroidered the A and B, C word embroidered half class is over, did not have embroidered.
eighth, the results of their deeds responsible for their own
area where many children, daughter, because they do not squeamish schemed, it can Zilai Shu.
daughter asked me one day, can bring their children to play, I answer, this is your home, you can call the shots, if you play with the children,
you can be peremptory, but in the end have to put everything back the status quo, because you bring a friend, you are responsible.
very fond of the children come to my house, because free. Usually I would ignore them, they play them, and I do mine, and his daughter
will be responsible as hospitality, if you eat, whether you play, entire along her themselves.
will sometimes have a good time which makes a muff on the floor, leaving her daughter will systematize them clean. If you do not clean up before catching the final clean-up on by the daughter herself. This is what we say good, she made the owner, she was responsible for the results.
ninth, floor
buns buns daughter arose very regular, not like people care about, never seen her unhappy quarrel with friends. Her grandmother had been very worried, I have often complained that her daughter Norinari buns, later will suffer.
large class, she brought back a play the students, the students decided to send a book. Piles of books, she read a bunch, a bunch of the Mo Kanwan, and her daughter to read a bunch of students in the culling of a book, but she insisted that a student did not read her book. Daughter insists that her students also insisted, so the daughter said, I did not read the book, can not give you, but you can borrow, I wrote a library card, you sign a good name, read the back to me. Two children seriously do a library card, sign name, write down the appointment.
buns just shallow, there is always the base line, when the touch in the end limit will come up with a solution, do not reason conflicts with friends. Forced her parents to let go and find small ways to solve their own problems, this is very necessary training dew. 141 # Author: Peach fish balls Reply Date :2010-9-20 7:14:00
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book in primary school, the teacher asked the prose daughter can not write to me to teach. I took her to the front of the computer, taught her to open Google, fuzzy input essay topic, reception the search button, and then told her that these are what you need manuscript, lug copy it, but you should have seen the teacher, so the whole of the duplicate it is very easy to find, you find a few pieces together much copied. Copy writing such a thing back cooked a resuscitation two or three back to back on the experience of 4.
Why teach her copy writing it, second grade children, vocabulary rarely, it is difficult to write vivid writing, the best way is to copy someone else's. When she pieced together several articles, all treatises must be carefully read, pick out a paragraph of obtainable words and try to put these together into a coherent and complete makeup.
Hey, I'm lazy, but this approach is absolutely very efficient.
twenty-first, doing homework till 10
second grade, because the school from his grandmother close, so he lived in his grandmother, but actually often do their assignment to ninety o'clock, began to adults complained that too much school work, and later with her classmates and found that some of the same work done before six, some children and daughter to do the same as 90.6. In fact, her daughter and did not seriously concentrate on assignment, play while doing so, of course, and later there was a time she looked at her grandfather every day to do, but others just do not look very effective. As a result, the landlord appeared very lazy. In fact, I just said to her very seriously, I know the quantity of work, every day from today to do the job no later than 8:00, after 8:00 challenged to do their homework, I'll throw the book. Her resistance, I'll tell the teacher, you will not let me finish the job, I did not pay. I laugh, then you Qugen teacher said well, anyway, Jiao Buchu jobs who are you not me, wrote on the blackboard is the name you are not me. Daughter of frustration, a whole month, every day I see her, a whole month, and her work are completed in six, and then it developed a habit, do not look able to quickly concentrate on completion.
why this can be so lightly corrected her bad accustomed, in fact, there are two needful conditions,
one I grew up instilled her life to her own responsibility, I do not She will be responsible, but also the implementation has been so, so she knows I say is true, she was his job not to pay the consequences.
Second, I grew up a definite set of rules are executed, may not maybe like the next, so I said 8:00 and then threw her to do the paperback, although not really fulfil, but she knew if I will perform violation.
XXII trust
old daughter: I want to do surplus classes on holidays?
me: Who is on?
daughter: of course I
on me: you asked me why on
-year-old daughter: Grading the teacher said, you can write, I do not consider it
me: Who test?
daughter: I test
me: birds do it with me and asked me why
-year-old daughter: I want to come to the students, do not know my family, her mother sent to the park entrance , come with me to pick up about it.
me: such a trivial matter but also to accompany me? You are not do not know the way, pick up his daughter
: I am not afraid of you fooled walked.
me: lie to you? First, you are 8 years old, the liar is too old, apparently articulate the idea, not keep family
Second, you are a girl, can not afford a large sell price, uneconomical
three, say to get you to sell to others to do his wife have children, you have not developed too small, now have to lie to you to keep a lot of years to make money, too lose
So, you are now is simply needless safest age, can cross the road safety.
daughter:. . . . . . . . . .
-year-old daughter
: grandfather they want to go traveling for a week, then who is going to elect me up after school ah
me: What then are so big then, come back with a key to their bus,
daughter:. . . . . . . .
-year-old daughter: the school open games, I can apply for a project can be reported two, there are high jump, long jump, 100 meters. . . . . . . I think what weekly you help Well, I can not decide
me: If your mother will help you with authentic idea, it will sow a tree on the age of 11
daughter
: My jaw utensil, grinding gum, and I am going to fix what
: This month I did not empty, you set a time I bought tickets to you, you go to Shanghai to find a doctor fix, remember to bring good message and Money
daughter: the Expo opened, I have not been to it
me: so peppery, I decided not to, poll in a drawer, themselves
daughter: I am afraid I lose ah
: Expo opened, Shanghai is now the safest place over many armed plain clothes, to go where you want to lose?
grandmother: both I go with
(grandmother is not insured must we go)
Pro to the sometime, Sui Suinian again asked her grandmother, how the motorcar how the MTR Expo, how to eat
daughter: Can you not so troublesome,
Women FiveFingers Performa, I can not take you.
Grandma: Well, I went to Shanghai will only emulate what you do not bother
at 10, I received a daughter, Tel: mother, we are now on the train, the train point X X separation about X minutes, you count the time to pick us.
to the car after her grandmother laughed like flowers, and tolerance can not help, very incited to say
go to the hospital today, I am going to fix her braces, she bought metro tickets are responsible for route to the hospital, his doctor said registration, I really just followed her do not control what is her
look at the map to the Expo venue to pick paths, go to dinner with, go into the others are adults to a standing ovation children, I just sat by her responsible for all meals delivered to my hands. I see things in the Expo, she told me that Grandma told me what you fancy is good, I bought you.
trust their children, not the words of encouragement, is a real understanding of your child, believe that their ability to free hand, the trust of two real XIII results are clouds
basic school after her daughter is still in kindergarten when his, do not do the exam go teach others. The subject of preoccupied to do sometimes and others not the same. Such as a math problem, a shop selling five apples morn, afternoon, sold seven pears, ask if you are the owner of the fruit into the what, why? Which fruit is only sold more than a simple comparison of what entered. Her daughter replied, if I were the owner went into strawberries, because I like to eat strawberries. When I deliberately saw this exam, the laugh to the wind messy. Well, I really do not think this is the problem, see this answer but the teacher must be a dark line up. One can assume, though her performance is poor but not very good. Six months later, the teacher every day, his daughter's grandmother said the family who control her. Yes, her mother. The teacher, then ask her mother to the school voyage.
I listened the news very sincere laugh with her daughter, I do ignore you how to learn,
Vibram FiveFingers Sprint, merged with like, but do you have to give me face, how they have to test it merged Average , if I lose face, you no agreeable fruit, is not it.
daughter's grandmother is very worried, each day, said to me, you tube of her completions, ah, ah pipe, and finally one day I am vexed, and told her that success is not important, people learn to do the important, primary knowledge third grade virtually all the basic words to know the basic increase and subtraction add and department are all learned, even if Tashang society generally also use this, even the best performance, not a man, do not take care of themselves is a waste, primary school This dog P thing, what is value so nervous. Her grandmother was shocked, and you can not say the child. I:. . . . . . In fact, I already told her that said that. But then, I still had to add to her content is: you bad fortune, was born late, you see, XX and XX and they did not read what the book can be miscellaneous with a work, in general, the later it was born read it to find a job higher education, China's education system is, you did not must pick, I asked you nought, but you want to find work to support their own future, or is mixed with a university degree was. Daughter nodded agree and repent that he was born much too late to read more books mixed working.
end, the teacher sent a text information, Yaoqiu review, Zheng Hao and daughter Waitou I walk, I end she said the teacher told you review, you need not look at her daughter shaking his head, do it, I will up, I nodded, I think so, you learn the little things that need review too piglet.
the end of second grade, math teacher, said children's grandmother, the child will read up more difficult.
third grade, as follows, the results others began to fall, the daughter of the still tepid mixed with the same results, fourth-grade end of the semester, I got the news, mixed with her results to the third So with the family saluting in advance, this result on the line asked, not award. Because her performance is mixed up, and I do not want her for this achievement and pressure, to amplify their efforts in order to maintain, say the study is for herself, her performance is, what to give medals for her achievements it. A free child's life easier to have a few years, in order that the clouds like some achievement, given up so as not worthwhile of ah.
fifth grade, sixth grade, she was still mixed with, one did not review too, says that the child is not there a sense of achievement in, do not drag the job, well, this is my hope. XXIV sign
daughter to learn a few years of hard brush penmanship, completion of normal script, running hand learning.
I: the running script to learn, as you usually use the regular script, you need my signature, you use the line of bookmarks click on it.
daughter: No, the teacher said it was not their sign.
me: hack, usually teachers tell you to read back the txt how do you sign
daughter called me: that you are willing to sign, and now I do not want to sign on your behalf
Why am I so casually to help her daughter sign work, because to understand his daughter, the consequences of her behavior by their own duty, no matter how I sign the terminal result or if the back could not take her, so she is definitely not for their daughter, why not ramming paste
sign on my benefit, because she knew if she took the papers to 0 I signed, I will certainly sign up smiling and said to her, this result is really not easy to test out, what kind of day you want to test this fecal kind of, let alone know I go out, it's too humiliating. So she was completely needless risks on behalf of the signature.
XXV, agreed after watching the film
A detailing of men and women I have a different book, his daughter does not know which to go out chops, seen with relish, some of which are male-female brain to see A piece different reaction, she did not understand, and came to ask me
daughter: A film is
me: ##########, no clothes on is not the plot for the membrane
daughter of person mating: Have you seen it
I: adults are generally seen
daughter: mating with cats as I do
: difference is that cat wearing a fur overcoat by the time the same posture for mating, while the majority of the people in the film A stripped of mating, but also point to wear clothes mating, mating with a different point of view the action, although the outward different, but the exposure of ######ual apparatuses for humans and cats or other animals did not disagree
daughter: I can see it?
me: not now, you are too small, A film provides at least 18 years old to see. This thing was no big deal, is to exaggerate the action sound to express the mating process between men and women, so you can read the future, join us and see.
Shaguai carefully at the edge of her husband, Ray was finally elevated heaved to the wind in the messy and charred head in front of our livestock just sounded
her wife and eleven-year-old daughter to A convention watching films together to see A piece
agreement with
be watching to see A piece
A film
up to see A piece
see A piece
A piece
film XXVI, no money
daughter who had been buying them things, but it is not for money or the concept, because what are the adults dig to buy money.
two grade, I gave her five yuan per month, told her that in the near future every month to give you five dollars, to buy anything with their own money. No two days she came to me that the school shop to sell the key sub-twice as expensive than outside, school, sell a dollar one, sell one yuan out of two. That, when very upset, because she just at school with their own money to buy one. Me: Yes, your five dollars can only buy five in school, outside you can buy ten. Stimulated a huge difference to her deeply. The next day after school, she came to me that was too expensive to buy, and asked if I could help her to bear half the price (fifty pence). I: No, Who told you before you buy do not liken prices, and say good, what are you looking for in this five dollars, the cheaper your Ye Hao Anyhow are you cost, I definitely will not Your behavior to buy this single.
Since then, her concept of money, gold is quite accurate the
to a cafeteria dinner, packed in a million in cash out of the envelope to her, told her that I keep the pro Chat Gateway not empty Checkout, you running a bit. She is natural to go with the waitress checkout, for a invoice with the repose of the money and come back to me. I asked her at the end of the day the money you pay out-end accounts, she replied: No, that was asked about 4500, I ordered 45 to give them the results more, and they me a.
-year-old took her to Shanghai to see when the teeth in the car with her to chat, do not talk with a bank card with a money card is a password. I put the card in the hospital let her go to her checkout, collected in her ear telling her password. Daughter: Actually, I suspect what is in the car on the password, but the driver on embark, I have not said.
daughter's support for the amounted grasp, I am quite pleased with his aging mother.
xxvii,
overseas with his family one daytime apt talk, speak apt colleagues and friends approximately a lot of kids, perusing is not ye drops, chose to go abroad, I profoundly BS.
I said to her daughter: Do you remember, later you can read the same as XX aunt pulled out of pure class, then we pay you the spend abroad, or would like to make money to go abroad so after their own, We will not pay a dime of your costs.
daughter nodded in understand. Xxviii, drawing class
fifth grade winter,
me: want to go to learn drawing, after you learn of this three-dimensional geometry is obliging, you can promote your space imagination
daughter: Well
me: you can first try a winter holiday, and if do not want to learn, you can not learn, as long as the money to pay this quarter on completion of the line.
winter ends
daughter: Mom, I think it is better to learn it, the teacher said, a level entrance test points can be added.
me: want to learn what money in a drawer, to pay their tuition fees.
daughter: the teacher that I learned so long I have never seen you
: Luanjiang, the first time we find time to pay is not seen additionally
daughter: he may not remember, but other parents will come then, you never come pick me
I: the need for it?
daughter: ah, no way in my asshole
educational methodology (my dad saying, for my school's theory, though he knew that I was telling the truth), daughter,
Vibram FiveFingers Bikila, or more than other children better for their hereafter consideration, we can see the child at a time real as they are responsible for someone else's theory that she would refer to their convenience, but to make judgments. 29, daughter of genius you have it
: Weng (her daughter's drawing teacher) said that some children learn school east west, the same results are not adopted, might as well concentrate on learning just like school was fine.
I: Master the need talent, no talent and then work can only be craftsmen, you have the talent to paint it?
daughter: No, our little girl, the teacher said she is very gifted, a few days later than I learned to paint on the inside, and I was outside painting, I just sit firm than others , Seriously.
I: So ah, you are not talented but ordinary people, then efforts can not become the main, you seriously as a man can do is learn a variety of fur and more, ordinary people will not be Huhu .
I: The average teacher in this school can only be superficial here, the difference is to reach the epidermis or dermis, to concentrate efforts to reach the brawn tissue artisan class, and only truly talented efforts to reach the bone through the center.
thirty, self-control are not nativity
Because early, this period is actually written into the top ten, hey, forget
-year-old children within the first legislative rules revisit the truth, the truth understand it or not does not matter, but the rules must be strictly enforced, but there can be wreck time.
summer to provide her daughter to eat every day, a small chilly, one day, her daughter made to eat one. I can answer, but one condition, you eat one today, then tomorrow, the day after tomorrow you can not eat, you can choose a daily, can also choose to eat a share of the next two days to give up. Daughter to choose to eat one, two days later she not been able to eat cold, so to break this rule only once and have not been broken.
daughter: I can do now to eat potato pieces?
I: Yes, but now fast food, you eat three can now eat, but eat a meal to eat six.
daughter: Well, I still eat a meal
daughter: I can now go out and play dirt it?
I: Yes, but now it is nap time, and if now you can play for half an hour to play, sleep up to play, can play one hour
daughter: I'm going to sleep.
we invested for her daughter, not the important day, such as birthdays, such as the Spring Festival. . . . . , Can not go out to buy entities. One day to go with her to buy commodity mart line, she stood next to the doll compartment looked very cautiously for a long time, her husband: Oh, can not buy. Her look of calm: I'm just looking ah.
who caught on, injuries all over with cover, I always could not help but to skin, has been stripping stripping, old wounds are not good, Although I know this is not good behavior, it is tough to hold back. Daughter began to have this behavior, so I told her, that if you peel the cover, will leave a scar after the piece of skin, it is difficult to see. Since then, her wounds are all on the cover come off surely, then peel off a not so extraordinary self-control I deeply embarrassed.
XXXI, the girl is to keep the
just referring to the rich material, must be the daughter of eutrophication quietly subtle, a little discrepancy, the results support the material out of the woman is not installed upstarts like 13 petticoat pretension .
Longines accident is real, year-old daughter absences a see, I gave her 2, 2 watches manner size and thickness are alike to the Mickey Mouse of the blue belt, anime chassis, Longines alligator strap, 18K gold watch, one more than the price a people, a value of more than ten thousand. The cause is one with a preparation, which merely took favor merely what, anyway, there are differences other than price are alike. Of course, I am sure her daughter would select Mickey Mouse. And daughter that watches, but because of the price distinction among brands of another substances a hundred times, but essentially no distinction.
I often put tens of thousands of cards to checkout her daughter, used to like. If you used to see them, do not feel great, will not go out to show off, show off the core is to think this thing will do great. Eutrophication is the pith to make her believe that these things the money was no big deal, only to have the concept, the future was not easily deceived, the parents do not have this mentality is not going to eutrophication daughter, or else impair her.
XXXII, now not allowed to see me QQ
daughter on her microcomputer chat QQ, suddenly announced to me, now I am not granted to see QQ.
I: What is it ah? Is looking for a boyfriend (laugh, happy to say)
daughter: Luanjiang, how could (with laughter)
me: good bad, do not have a boyfriend and made so mysterious, boring
daughter : I am in the bar looking for a QQ group to join, told me about age, we are talking cartoon
me: not that something and puzzling, kiss Well what what, what great
daughter: it is not , where animation is the talk of people
me: ah, virtual guy Yeah, you're far worse than the mother, your mother in the recent group chat real guy, is that Bell XX
daughter: I know, not that you have been looking at the thing
I: Yes, recently chatted with people killing pill, but that Shasha I adore your mother, or where you give your group recommend, looks real people die like a dog, super good
daughter: Yes Yes, generally this ultra-handsome cardinal symbol are not the most important that the baby would
requires capability sets, the first first the least probable of the most serious location is right no big handle, such as a boyfriend, let the children kas long asthis does not matter a little more amazing on the secret, press on the child's half guard relieved.
When the children to tell you a secret, the above continue to be the most serious cases that say no big deal. Well, the rest of the guard is relieved.
then pulled with their children the same location, she told the guy when you chat animation, you let her know you are doing the same thing, much more than she talked, she this juvenile. Recommended twelve best interest of their people.
so-called secret to become a smoke, you know want to know, you are relieved of children circumspect xxxiii, small school of small
this time of preparation, thought that does not material, but saw posted a few days behind that or write approximately it.
little small on what to do to prepare before it
1, teach children to eat. On this, more than one year old child when you can let them eat their own, not be long before they can get their own, of course, the beginning is certainly annoying. Many parents like to say is not lost at the starting line to get their kids do, how to eat their own children are not afraid of them lost it and fared himself exercise the child's hand-eye coordination, that exercise the brain, boost the child's self-confidence ( parents to let go, their children get old so-called reverse phase or not apparent). Children in the age of two and a half ago on a small small proficient use of chopsticks can be, how could the little peckish after the small to ourselves.
2, teaching children to wear their own clothes and shoes off. Nap up twenty or thirty children are sitting and the other teachers dress, you are afraid he chilled, frozen, but how could at present, get yourself, how cold was.
3, to educate children their own toilet, obliterate yourself PP. Do not be afraid children do not obliterate clean, and more exercised well, of course, in the winter, for the child is short hand clothing and more, you can ask the educator for help.
4, for children to buy clothes to wear off easily. Such as the anterior cingulate (in this course to learn on a small small front buttoning a shirt, this is beneficial to brain evolution, fine motor), boot buckles to wizardry, the kind of easy to wear off.
of course, is what I do, so little on the small children, the basic no such problems, many parents are anguished to see children not wearing lukewarm enough to eat, you feel bad? How distressed the children themselves do not get early church. Teachers are people will be tired, you try to stop crying day in front of twenty or thirty children will not eat will not dress, in fact, the cry is the teacher. Xxxiv,
her four-year-old bar,
Women Vibram FiveFingers Kso, took her to banquet after the activity area, there are several seven-year-old boy in the melodrama, daughter ran to connect in the next, a little lad cornered around and kick her up for a result, her daughter gave activity to the grit on the ground, of lesson, does not fall very light. The child man stared, and looked at her, and I see standing on the corner, know what to do, I can see very nervous panic. I then moved 45 degrees up at the sky shake. . . . . . Out of the marts had. 15 minutes and then come behind to play his daughter has joined the ranks, very cheerful, come back tomorrow Shihai concert.
home after her own management of the bruise, I asked her if she did not fall after the curious little boy, her reply, he is not intentional, and I fall not too massive, it just there is some blood, pain neither is it too many.
daughter did not even ask my reaction, because she knew even if she was knocked to the rupture of the children, and I will bring her to the hospital rather than reprehend others. Because this is still her thing, the subject matter between the peers to solve her own decrees, blame and do not blame her own choice.
35, her daughter, though you are human, but can also be hurl point machines
daughter: math test today, most people have 80 + test, I was 86, only three test 90 or more, a test of 99.5, normal test results are also up and down the 80 +.
me: Let me guess, the three 90 + in at least two boys, that boys must be 99.5.
daughter: how do you know so accurate (lip O word)
daughter: English test today, there are two fail, only five 90 +, that I had 92
me: must not pass the two boys
daughter: how do you then know
daughter: the final examination a lot of people 90 +, that I had 98
me: that the boys usually super good math , you administered to get an estimated score no higher
daughter: Hey, guess why you are so exact
fifth-grade daughter has been developed, because never review these results truly reflect her the brain case, that his daughter is just an ordinary person with ordinary feminine brain, but also the future in science is unlikely to have great latent.
my sixth grade daughter: In your opinion, no chance to obtain out in science, but then, though you may not have a strong science-minded, but you boys off than the general language learning, strong. English does, it'll never get to use, procurable to fluently communicate in the future you the opportunity to perhaps more than others, China's exam-oriented education also have the advantage that the packaging fragment enumeration, you may be a little languid science, but the English exercise is strong, but also in a way recompense for your weaknesses.
training in a surround after Akira, his daughter decided to go to English. Foreign teachers,
Women Vibram FiveFingers Sprint, four small class sizes, self-reported three years.
1st day back I asked: The additional three children are antique school where you?
daughter: two to work, I am a looking for work
:. . . . . .
daughter: the teacher arranged for me to the next study-room teacher's course, I told her well, I do not listen to understand, first get ready courseware it.
second time I asked: Today you do two hours of courseware it?
daughter: No, an hour and a hour I go to the teacher talk about something.
me: do courseware while a person? Teacher did not penetrate you to assist you?
daughter: how could a teacher to do, of course, do yourself a courseware
me: I find the teacher to talk about it?
daughter: first find my English teacher set a name, she took a bunch of my pick, I picked a short. Then set the next class with her time, talked something else also made the questionnaire canvases.
will plan for themselves, doing things their own daughter, although ordinary people, but I trust that her heart will be a lot less worry. XXXVI, mire horse
This is really a excellent category, the first time I saw deeply impressed, suggested to her quickly. Together they quest to find all editions of the photo and dirt horse anthem, while listening to while overjoyed laughing and determined to buy a pair. But a call to play the N found, something that valuable to necrosis, one at a time seven or eight million, a counter-offer and not below the agreement could be reached in the circumstance only to give up. Anyway, will decline in value, so you can buy or a daughter agree.
may be bad taste, and sometimes we will sing loudly at home with mud horse all out of tune version of the song, happy for them.
xxxvii, poor mao
daughter: I heard that Mao did not die for decades still lying on the crystal coffin, putrid people visited
me: this man, though your mother I am BS him, but also very sympathetic to him. We Chinese people pay attention to put to rest, he died thirty years, and also made the specimens to visit, not buried truce.
daughter: Why should I do this to him?
me: do not know who the decision is not anyone dislikes with mao, perhaps when people visit his Biaoben Daiyou adore for him, at last that time he is a deified diagram, but our generation he already there is no sense, let lonely you this generation, now estimated to visit the young matron whose body was act it to see the millennium as the mood to go.
daughter: dead samples also made to visit people, really poor
me: your mother if I die, I remember looking for a tree buried in the ashes do fertilizers, the estimate is a aggregate nutrient fertilizers. 38 cats
family has three cats, one white and yellow, all stray cats, the last summer in a white community stuck atop a tree called a day, year-old daughter went to their own security, said the feline come from the tree, please help security, so security ascend down to help her grab her family.
daughter accepted a cat breast is still in the stage only a small white, claim that this is her cat, the other two is the mother cat. Daughter's cat is the only masculine cat, slowly growing up point nature came out, went to mattress arranging the site, actually a disaster, straw, or cat, although still sent for sterilization. Daughter holding her cat suddenly asked, men are prostate, prostate that male cats have it. I: This is really a problem, need to check.
old male cat has really Kazakhstan, also like people will obtain inflammation, tut.
thirty-ninth, snakes
summer, her daughter at home, I go to work, she called and found a snake in the yard, do not know there is poison, long with yellow stripes, is not about one measure
for a call to another: the Internet finding out that she, like the snake, still do not know whether the toxic
third phone: my grandfather came, took the big scissors to repair the fence that snakes pate and neck a pair of scissors , but not cut, the snake swam to pull out between the trees. Grandfather shows day to say, go.
night I go home, with Internet search, finally found the same snake, is a non-poisonous snakes. I said to her daughter: no poisonous snakes and not yellow significantly less poor, you should be alive at this thing. Sigh, this snake, then it is very expensive to buy, not necessarily always buy the meat is very fresh, if necessary the dead skin Pa Mei Mei can eat. Daughter was overjoyed, seeking to catch his father, his father replied: afraid, afraid. Called grandfather, grandfather back: too late, unhappy over to catch (I guess also a little scared of). N-playing phone is found to be no one to help her catch up, so to seek to catch the snake with me, I flatly refused, his aging mother I fear that the top things to solace her: I'm afraid of. I: So who catch? Daughter: I catch you help me stand on top of playing like a flashlight.
I stood on the steps upon to play flashlight, make a run at the posture, the daughter wearing disposable mittens in the hospital to find the snake, appointed after a long hard pluck up this snake is still alive. Then she gently stroked the snake hand, murmured: good poor snake, I just pull for a long time, surely killing me. At dawn tomorrow, then we decided to catch the snake out, I asked her how to do caught, daughter: of course, put ah. I: So you just not want to eat it it? Daughter: just do not think that it is a waste of dead snakes eat it, but of course, put a live snake
outcome, died the next day it hurt too much cut, do not know when summer did not dare eat dead , daughter reduced, did not have to let go was not any waste.
40 dogs
her love of animals and sometimes to shock others gain, any size, whether she saw the dog come to be touching some hold, the bigger the dog the more love, had requested I only help her heave Great Pyrenees, I answered this city are not allowed to keep a large dog. Daughter: Then we moved to the village go.
some time, her daughter after dinner went to the hobby is a square with a variety of mixed dog stroll out, always report to me, today saw a dog, today saw a Soviet animal husbandry, today Tibetan Mastiff to play with one, or to a dog, and today was only the grass with the dogs looked great .....
One day to go home, to the community to see neighbors stroll an adult large dog, rush want me to stop, the dog flew away, the dog owner to the dog cord to her, smiled and said: This is the sled, do not bite. She was then holding the dog rope Flanagan dog stroll in the district where the two back and forth, back yard with them the way with the big dogs to chat to dinner.
Interestingly, no matter how the dog had never bitten her daughter, even a very amazing kind of ferocious bite of the dogs to shut up. Cats and dogs are emotion extremely perceptive animals, while pretending to calm nervous person who can fool the people but it must deceive these animals, they will feel the human nervous, so it is easy to ache them more nervous. The daughter of a friend every once in a while these animals, she relaxed there is no hostility, so animals can loosen, then drastic dogs so she can reach out and touch. I taught her the face of animals, if you are afraid, then do not pretend not afraid to impair it as soon as feasible before you try to flee or get rid of each other, but if you really are not afraid to loosen, then do not hurt the beast will ordinarily loosen you, these animals will feel with your decision on your attitude. XLI sleep three minutes like
daughter very hour, a day to eat someone ahead a siesta, I do not agree, then ascertain his daughter, I proposed a concession, at the peak of she fell comatose three minutes, I called her up to eat. Her daughter no concept of time, merely too know thatthree minutes is very little time, it was agreed, and told at least 3 minutes have to phone her up, I am told must fall asleep three minutes, eyes closed, not also light.
I forever inspected, an hour afterward, her daughter woke up a little sign, now trod ahead to flap and gently mention, get up up, three minutes is up. Rushed her eyes open, my table feature, you see, I am credited it, at least three minutes once called you, now you can eat up. Nodded her happy, I feel magnificent sleep three minutes acquired. This move in with her learning well before the bell,
Vibram FiveFingers Kso, and then had no knowledge of minutes later. Sometimes her daughter would be insatiable demands sleep two minutes, however agreed her no problem, but for pragmatic, I would say that three minutes is a minimum time, two points are too far, can not agree. She really test it, then still one-third agreed.
42 medication
daughter is very small (I remember it was a year old), we usually beverage green tea everyday to preserve the secret of her, she always stated not to drink, but by the I sometimes give her a secret, put it very weird, in fact, children do not know what green tea flavor, do not know why she can not drink, but so secretly carrying a weird person drink a small mouth is unusual pleasure to encounter.
to the given medicines so when do we drink tea when he faces, state can not give her to drink, and I put medicine on Shaonei, pretending to secretly get a spoonful to her, fed her, and told, fast drink , do not let people have found. Drink and then quickly take her own glass to drink water and pretend that we did not do anything the way, do not let her attention entirely on the breakthrough, what did not attention to drink, narcotics still is quiet and green tea drinking the delight of satisfaction.