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136303 2008 年 05 月 27 日 00:55 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (5) Category: Personal Diary
Only love is not enough
Closer to home, to talk about this very cause a lot of sympathy and feelings of the story. After reading this drama gave me the greatest feeling, with Huo Ran words, is
Many people may have gone through a wild teenage days, persistent belief that But life has taught us that only love is not enough. Between men and women, between parents and children to achieve happiness is based on love, but not the only factor, healthy, beautiful and enduring love also need tolerance, understanding, trust, and forgiveness. These words seem to be commonplace, but in real life, we often simply because of the love and be loved as a matter of course, the love to bring the original intent of the burden and pain of non-.
(a) the love between parents and children and mothers
Yuwei all kinds of conflicts and contradictions between the very real demonstration of real life between parents and children a common problem. Tan is undoubtedly in love with her mother, her love is no different from other mothers, a bit small and fragmented, a bit wordy, little things to worry about what clothes to wear to work Yuwei, petty bickering to fight; big worry about her daughter's marriage is on the order As for the one turned over the phone to call her daughter's male students, if not sinking, licking the calf of the heart, where is the patience and persistence? But her love is peremptory, and strong, she always according to plan the Yuwei own ideas of life, she did not understand, nor try to find out about her daughter's heart, even she herself said later, she did not know Yuwei doing, what you want, love who you are. It can be said, that she imposed Yu Wei Yu Hengyi's. Even when she saw how love does not know Yuwei up when she saw the son, nor stand in the position of her daughter had to seriously reflect on this to Yu Wei described his ideal of She did not know it was her own strong, and in a matter of course under the name of love caused her pain - and when I later saw Yu Wei and Yu Hengyi dealings and depression kind of force it a great tightness. The mother of Tan Yu Hengyi blindly encourage, even more so had to Yu Wei and Yu Hengyi between the mother if not obsessed, Tan, two people will not experience so much pain.
not all had a baby the women know how to do a good mother, a sensible good mother, good wife always is to ensure the stability of a key figure in the family happy. Tan Mother her husband own a strong drive away, she did not attract the lessons from the same role, in turn with their daughters, as well as Yuwei often reluctant to go home because the mother made her feel depressed. Yuwei pregnant after being evicted from their homes, it shows the mother of the unfeeling and selfish Tam. Please forgive me that she selfish, because this is definitely when she thought of his discredited in the face of neighborhood gossip, she did not think, even if her daughter did something wrong, but are subject to heavy losses in the physical and psychological circumstances, in the most in need of care and comfort when out of the house after the go? with some element of tragedy. Yu Wei is because no way to communicate and exchange with the mother, Huo Ran a few will confide in the next to tears.
Yanjia problems between father and son is also an extreme. Yin parent because his wife died in childbirth while her cold, because the error committed by young son with them alienated. Emotionally from the Han Du Zhanyu shown, and the dissolute life of twenty years ho point of view, the parents of children with vital life great responsibility and influence. Yin is also the love child of the parent, he raised his two birds, named Even if there is love for children, this is not enough love to go bother him operate, maintain and children's feelings. He did not care children love him, he just wanted his wife dead, thinking to go with her as soon as possible reunion. But really, as his wife if he said, A family of three, has a net worth of prominent, bright behind, but it is the lack of affection and warmth of the desert.
only Son, and mining Feng Hou Muzaizhiqing between the people feel warm and happy. The irony is that, compared to Tam mother and father Yin, Feng-mining is not read any book but the marketplace woman, sale of counterfeits, with people cursing Avenue, a very forceful woman. But to see her son taught Hou how well she and how understanding between Hou son, you know how good she is considerate, and understanding of the mother. Details of life,
new balance shoes, as adopted mother Tam Fung with the nagging, petty, but she knew how to respect the feelings of his son to choose, when necessary,
------' Laugh - Qzone log, will stand up for Hou child, the mother did not like Tan just deliberately alienate her daughter. Yuwei Feng collected before and after the manner of a few interesting changes had started Hou Yu Wei is the son of leadership, respect and polite she is the middle child because of travel out of injury Hou, Yu Wei to show her anger and angry Later, children crush Yu Wei Hou, Yu Wei verbally warned her, although not to the face, but also reasonable manner, to the last to see her son's affection for Yuwei, although reluctantly but also moved into the home after the warm Yuwei thoughtful, all attitudes and practices are the mother of a son eager to normal and instinctive performance, but with the father of Tan Yin mother and compared the treatment adopted in Phoenix is more than a lot of valuable intelligence components: tolerance, understanding and respect.
University of parents is a question worthy of careful study of each person.
(b)
love between men and women and three men between the Yu Wei, Unconditional love does not mean that a person must be able to get their returns. Huo Ran and the Han marriage that: even if the marriage is a love-based smoke does not provide an absolute guarantee that this love is forever.
first say Yuheng Yi, to be honest, it is not like this person. He always loved to love Yuwei declare himself the origin of decades, but I did not see him in this decade did nothing to win Yuwei love, when the University's pursuit,
# R outbreak in silence .. - Qzone log, Yu Wei, and there is no memory, that when she is not feeling him. Must have two separate ways after graduation, then, if I was so in love with Yu Wei, then there is nothing that should not be, and in foreign countries these years seems to have no connection, it is not like a lovestruck man practice unless he is a piece of wood in the wood. He did not want to, so many years,
new balance sneakers, even if he can wait, he met someone not afraid Yuwei it? I do not believe this decade, he did not move to the other woman had heart, and perhaps a small circle of foreign relations, may have been sparks but no results, but I do not believe Yu Hengyi this decade for such Yuwei and Shoushenruyu. After his return is still single, but was not encountered during the marriage of the object can be nothing more. Why else would not he take the initiative to contact Yu Wei, Yu Wei mother was the first by phone to find him? So often see Yu Hengyi with a front of the Yu Wei Yu Hengyi
always a love, love is an attempt to impress her. This is the unrequited love usually a problem for people who can understand,
+ + + + - Qzone log, but not a smart move, not be encouraged.
Yuheng Yi's worth pondering the role of quite a few places, then there are many wonderful lines, it should be some Neixiu man, so people think an actor could make him play a little less stiff, less stylized.
Hou child: Hou Yu Wei's love child on behalf of a young puppy love the warm, simple, dedication and selflessness, is the most pure love. He loves Yu Wei, also in love with his love. Compared with the Yuheng Yi,
new balance mens, he only had to pay, without asking, and he knows Yuwei, all for her sake, do all to make her happy, happy. He can give love for a man of the Yu Wei, without reservation, did not give yourself a little posterior. His smile is always so enjoyable, clear, haze is Yuwei warm touch of a world of bright colors. Hou has published a lot of people touched by sub-declaration of love, these can be left to the back slowly finishing.
But Hou Yu Wei to win the love of children is the final fate of the accidental and not inevitable, if Yuwei did not experience going into turn of events, there is no physical force to pay again and again devastated, and she does not understand Hou affectionate child to share valuable, it is not growing attachment to him. Hou son even said himself, If I did not experience so many setbacks Yuwei, she may choose another Yuheng Yi,
new balance running shoes, and what really Lunbu Shang Hou child thing. Hou made up his mind even if a child no duty-bound, Yuwei really marry someone else that day, he is definitely heavy on a record. Cruelty that said it was unfortunate that really made the Hou Yu Wei the child. Unfortunately, the experience is not Yu Wei, Hou Yu Wei child may not be the be the love. Yu Wei Hou sub-family of more than passion, more of a pamper and gratitude. But this is a love that feeling of moderate and every detail is sufficient to maintain a stable and lasting marriage, which is the pool of rough Yuwei and reality is the most secure destination.
Huo Ran: Write down the name of midnight, I think of the name of a movie - This makes wretched and hateful man brought to Yuwei how much pain ah!
no doubt, is in love with Yu Wei Huo Ran, even as he said, from the first minute of meeting fell in love with. He is the most understood Yuwei, and he knows Yuwei heart Huo Ran about her heart, love her, but also can not give her happiness, because he is a married man. The show is not good-looking place to put this love affair compiled a cliche, love triangle. As a successful career,
new new balance shoes, and having no copper gas man,
new balance 574, Huo Ran in this show have a rare feeling of restraint and self-sustaining. Even if difficult in his Yuwei, he also insisted on the moral bottom line, saying, This is a decent man mature words to say. In more accustomed to the surrounding middle-aged men romance of gold today, Huo Ran the performance of it all themselves. But as he said, and tone - it is painful for Yuwei temptation visible, but out of reach.
Yu Wei and Huo Ran feelings though sincere, but rarely successful, their upbringing and moral values so that they will not dare to cross the perimeter. A series of outrageous, if not of the Han to the Huo Ran derailed the move reason Huo Ran away from it all and will not let myself go to Anhui to find Yuwei. However, Huo Ran is not easy being a young man of about passion, and in that time when his wife became terminally ill, although painful, can chose to go home. From the standpoint of maintaining marital, Huo Ran the return is correct, conscientious and ethical choice because he remembered his duty, remembering his wife had a deep love. Huo Ran with the culvert because of love and marriage into the smoke, but the business a good start to marital love alone is not enough. Regardless of how serious the mistakes Han, a change in marital life, to go through the trials and crises such as marriage is not a fairy tale, but the reality of life, in addition to love, it also needs two people to run hard, requires both sides to keep running, inclusive, understanding and communication. If every time a problem can be a reason to shirk responsibility, which will increase the world every day do not know how many broken families.
Huo Ran is realized that this, that there was a positive remedy. In fact, this attitude is worthy of careful consideration or reference. Because in real life, precisely because many families both husband and wife are too self-centered, capricious, lack of responsibility in the crisis, the collapse of the trials and broken. Break a marriage is easy, but after-effects and complications caused by it is not self-willed and impulsive people can be considered when the comprehensive.
However, the self-correction of the Yu Wei Huo Ran is so much harm. If Yuwei not so good and cute, Huo Ran Jiaoren choice would not be so distraught.
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