As you can see this is a complete science and when looking at it like this it wouldn't be hard to create a few excuses at each and every bullet point why it's ok to stop doing this because you don't believe you can do it. Or if we rephrase that and just call it lack of confidence.........
This might sound little too obvious to share but I've seen so many people lose confidence by trying everything in once without a proper foundation. And instead of dealing with one piece at a time they get frustrated, overwhelmed or both which is bad for your confidence and that's a lot of stress.
The solution is to only deal with the first two bullet points enough times until you don't have to think about them and can treat them like one bullet point. This is the right way to build confidence step by step and in big enough pieces for you to deal with. When you can control the strings and move your hands at the same time that's just one bullet point now and you are ready to add one more by manipulating the laces into the right position.
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But nobody has low confidence regarding this subject, as long as you did learn how to tie your shoes in your childhood. On the other hand you can easily write other challenges with similar complexity. Walk, ride a bike or running a car can be even more complex then the process above and when you start to look at all those bullet points in once it can be overwhelming and confidence goes "bear on wall street".
Do you remember how you learned to tie your shoes? I know it can be a vague memory but I remember it quite clear.
It doesn't matter how much we need to do at the same time, we can only have one thought at a time and we can only deal with one bullet point at a time. That's why we merge them later on when the demands increase so we still can manage what needs to be done.
? First you had to be able controlling the strings I right position with the clumsy fingers
? Next step to move the hands at the same time but not letting go of the position
? Then you had to manipulate the laces into position
? Hold that position with one hand while switching grip
? Pull one out while controlling the other one
? Tighten it up without losing the setup
? Pull for extra strength
Confidence is like tying your shoes!