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39474580 2008 年 04 月 18 日 20:54 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
Human hetero######ual love, although there are different historical and cultural phenomenon, or that social phenomenon. But personally, still belong to the individual phenomenon. Because, love relationship with the individual exclusion. Another specificity. Although people are free to choose, but can not always choose. As lovers of both parties, need to learn love, give love and nurturing. Then the fruit, will sweet. So I love summarized in the following three parts:
(1): telepathy.
(2): Opposites attract.
(3): love and be loved in the hearts of the status of both parties.
one of these three can be considered to understand bit by bit leaks of love. Such as the Bureau has three parts, can be regarded as true love. Both men and women should cherish the hard-won love fruit, but to go a meet, understand the development process. He will be unhappy to explain in words.
(a) telepathy telepathy
: (1, 2 looks, acts of physical appearance ideological basis for the character 3, 4, 5 expression of temperament ; good faith in the concept of life 6 7 8 character used to demand 10 9 trust responsibility). For most people, not all have the 10 areas. But also to maintain the love and marriage. Can find several ways. Because the human mind to gain favor from the other sensors, is from ten aspects to enlightenment, to performance. If these areas who deny empathy; then formed a marriage is hypocritical or dishonest. Nature and is forced to live together permanently pain.
(1) physical appearance looks: The first impression is that people look and feel. Of course, not to the handsome and beautiful as the love condition. But it must be the ideological basis or otherwise act with character recognition. Because people's natural beauty, tall and slender, body decent, curve is clear, looks beautiful, really make people watch. Of course different people have different aesthetic value, however, from an artistic perspective, the natural beauty will be more special than the type of man's clothing culture can also see the ideological basis and cultural heritage. Beauty salons can coordinate the original figure. Artists, writers describe the beauty of the human body, it can be considered uniquely.
(2) acts of character: a person's behavior means, has its ideological basis for spiritual good fit, what kind of ideological basis, there will be any kind of way. Has transformed the idea of people with not modified, there is a difference. Human behavior. Can talk the language, facial expressions on the eyes, practice behavior, attitude, lifestyle, dealing with relations between people shown. As for the character, related to ethics, life, world outlook of the problem, have different views, positions, and methods. Because the meaning of the concept of character, in essence, is thinking of sentiment, life style and interaction with recognized customs or manners, beliefs, ambitions, personality traits. Who approved the concept of a thought, he will show it in behavior.
(3) ideological foundation: the spirit of man is to have a little faith, have spiritual needs, be considered a vulgar interests, from animals, such as personal appearance. Living habits, mental construction of the park, requires considerable education, need to pursue life whom life. Ordinary people have of life,
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(4) temperament of expression: the temperament and culture as the level of human quality and change, but the root causes of environmental factors arising in my life and habits, the rural environment, urban environment,
replica chanel handbags cheap, knowledge of the environment, people are very determined hard to jump out of his environment. Such as: dress, posture, tone, walking the walk phase, which can reflect the environment of the mark. Psychology division of the different temperament, good or bad is not good or bad, only because of agility or reflect the things to make people's feelings of things not the same expression, a situation caused by the different arrangements of different experiments have different expression appears.
because people have different habits, so there are different expressions. Living habits, they can choose different, but were forced to nature. To change habits, we must improve the quality of life, which linked to the economic conditions, political conditions, cultural knowledge and other conditions. A man unhappy when he realizes it needs to change, he would like to add the relevant conditions, then produced the desired, determined, and religion.
(5) good faith: not the ordinary people, ordinary people's thinking have, with this thought from childhood days of intellectual and intelligent, very savvy, highly honed a variety of environments, and accumulated a wealth of social experience . Usually want to create in their lifetime inventors have determined the cause of, the business of entrepreneurs,
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(6) the concept of life: What is the concept of life, the truth is the people material and spiritual needs. People like to eat. Wear. Live. OK; like art appreciation, ritual. Love, love to create and pay compliments. Minded that there are specific comparisons of different psychological, grand, gaudy, thrift, and actuarial. Ability in communication, performance of labor skills, learning ability, knowledge structure, fun-loving, self-cultivation, entertainment interest. The cause of success or failure of the concept of the decision.
(7) personality habits: tilting the inside out character with personality, warm, quiet, self confident, brave, timid, weak internal control and comfort and emotional release. Used to refer to the unconditional reflex repetitive behaviors, but also to abandon the bad habit of creating new habits lead. Have the will of the people are used can be changed, repentant Why, everyone always has such kind of bad habits. Such as living habits, work habits, use of time arrangement, customs and etiquette and so on.
(8) demand: As the quality of life of different people, different needs arose. Personal material life and spiritual life purpose. What kept the concept of attitude needs, it can be said the quality of life of their own arrangements. For example: the basic material content of the plan, the number of necessities of life expectations of the solutions. Lead to work, career, business goals Design. The spiritual life for the needs of cultural, artistic, aesthetic formed by the values, outlook on life, world view. If both men and women in love, including many of the same opinion, then there is the basis of the necessity of living together
(9) Responsibilities:. The biggest difference between humans and animals, is to learn the work,
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miu miu handbags sale, people's happy life, to rely on labor to create their own, others can not be, dependent on and waiting to no good results. What is created is to have new ideas, breakthroughs, some gratitude. Others pay for your love and your passion to use gratitude to embrace. However, to work hard to increase the income of labor, marriage and family courage to bear the responsibility to correctly handle the relationship between children, parents and spouses. In the feelings and the marriage relationship, should pay attention to understanding, caring, feeling, satisfaction, passion, love.
(10) Trust: the love of the people, the lack of trust, not a love. Love and mutual trust is the least ideological quality. If a marriage is not well established in the trust that would be very dangerous, imagine a regular suspect others of infidelity, the other is often based on individual ideas to watch his behavior. This is the feeling of two people is what it's like. Ideological basis of good will to trust, caring, responsibility, there is no selfishness, there is a good trust. Be selfless dedication, trust, also from the United States and the right mind trust. People did not have faith, but at least has a good heart. In my opinion West Liberty, Equality, Fraternity of these three ideas, the lack of worthy people of faith should be mentioned that the spirit of the park.
All in all, less people going to consider someone a little more concern for others, social responsibility a little more passion for life a little higher, broad accumulation of knowledge that others are not afraid of how I like. Modest and prudent and responsible, seeking common ground while reserving differences. The trust will be a welcome partner, many people lack contains all of the broad mind, leaving the flower of love, thank transfer, loss of common interest and common language. It goes without saying, there is always the sense in the mind, find the same, the only possible love and be loved. That in mind several aspects of attention to training, then: to live the next few years the foundation has in them. I think people as a mate object, are inseparable from each of the ten aspects of the screening.