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drama in the ancient legend, that virtuous wife often raise younger siblings, was King called
Today, in Gaoyang County, have such a wife, her husband's brother Shihou three disability 28 years. 28 years, black hair become white hair, a loving mother love, and then book the legend of the human story.
dear: Disability younger brother are hiding
story begins 28 years ago, when Li Lanmei still pretty young lady, it was for the media, away from her family not to introduce Gaoyang far West Village's high-Liang Yanjun Yang Zhen, Liang Yanjun who was serving in the army, the matchmaker said nice, too.
Lilan Mei's mother heard described, very satisfied, agreed to the Liang Yanjun day visit to Ka meet. Introduced to meet his family, Liang Yanjun, said he still has three brothers went out to play. Later learned that the three brothers are disabled, Pomu not a fear of marriage, gave hiding.
courtship down. Li Lanmei suddenly got the news that three brothers are disabled Liang Yanjun, heard the remark, have hesitated, parents let Li Lanmei themselves, Lilan Mei said, the disabled, who do not also, Zancun do not have disabilities, people do not they get married and have children later, still live?
see Li Lanmei do not mind, parents do not say anything.
Li Lanmei no ordinary girl, an old party member in 1972, age 13, self-care in the village three five guarantees, give them a day collecting firewood, cooking, famous , has served as Director of Women in the village.
held a simple ceremony, Li Lanmei to marry the Ka, saw the three had never met husband's brother. Dadi Yan Singapore (47 years old), younger brother Yan School (43 years old), third brother, Yan-Bin (year 34), Dadi and the third brother, a fault, the legs can not stand, things can only hold the hop hop to move his toes, his younger brother Daisha, Dadi and the third brother is also a lack of intelligence. Look in the eyes of Li Lanmei is also not mind, but took pity Heart.
get married several years after, father died, leaving a sick mother, her husband go out to work, Li Lanmei propped up a home.
agricultural, domestic, are her manage a pair of hard-working hand, to prevent his younger brother were worse than others, and she put them spick and span every day, when the third brother, only seven or eight, each days followed her to her carrying to the streets to see open-air movies, and chatting with folks, do not know, have thought it was her son.
year from the busy winter and spring, not retired and sit when the girl is living the same day, she was also her mother, husband's brother to wash their clothes, a big tub.
episode: the addition of a Jiugong out of the public
brother, sometimes in the street by a bully,
levis jean, Li Lanmei to find a go good with each other, said, bully him.
water generally passed the day, common people, not earth-shattering event, but the ever-present taste of the ups and downs.
mother's maiden, and a bachelor brother, older,
true religions, a person's life. One day in 1989, Lilan Mei and her husband went to see him, Jiugong sick, heavy, no one care, Lilan Mei said,
to his doctor, after a week of convalescence. Jiugong go,
levis jeans, Lilan Mei said, Over the past 3 years,
levis jeans sale, one thing took place at home, her mother took to the streets, killed in a car crash.
mother did not, Jiugong not stay, home another brother, nephew, nephew, daughter-in is not a thing here to stay, ah, need to wait on her husband's brother has three.
Lilan Mei said, p> Uncle heard, but also peace of mind to stay down. The old man eat eggs a day, a few better, at home and then suffering, Li Lanmei we need to meet him. Was suffering from hemiplegia,
true religion jeans, Li Lanmei day the doctor gave him the injection, infusion, also carrying him to find someone outside the village, massage, spent four or five thousand dollars, which borrowed more than two thousand, and finally cured the disease to the elderly. Her husband out when unskilled laborer, 20 yuan per day,
true religion store, poor family life, serve the elderly, brother to a clean sweep of all Li Lanmei.
until 2007, Jiugong died some time before dying, the elderly Lilan Mei said, ah!
care of three disabled husband's brother is not a simple matter. Dadi and the third brother intellectual slightly better, but the legs with disabilities, younger brother can walk, but Daisha. Three husband's brother is therefore a very heavy burden, in the early years when her mother, to make a living, he took his younger brother to the sheep, to support their family, and later her mother passed away, leaving his younger brother, and the sheep can not release, because, Every evening, not the younger brother back, the sheep did not come back, that is, the sheep back, younger brother did not come back. Li Lanmei no alternative but to sell the sheep.
three husband's brother does not work, but little to eat and drink a lot of expense than the average person, Dadi third brother moved with toe walking, had to buy new shoes every month, three intelligence abnormal brother appetite than many of the NPC, in particular, a delicious home-made, three children eat often at a stretch, Li Lanmei just laughed, not at all angry.
three husband's brother's shoe department have to give her every day, they are used to shout: a husband's brother's clothes is a big tub, cold water in winter cold hands were raw, they have to wear clean three husband's brother.
Dadi was sick once, do not eat meals at home, you must eat fried, apple, though not well-off family, Li Lanmei to buy them every day.
the New Year, Li Lanmei do not give their children new clothes, do not give lucky money, they have to give three husband's brother. She thought, three disabled husband's brother very poor and can not be worse than others.
the most to worry about is the younger brother Yan Li Lanmei school. One day in 2007, Li Lanmei being the home of toil, suddenly neighbor to call, Yan learn to die! The original, in a merry funeral of a sudden hemiplegia Yan School, mouth saliva flow ... ...
Li Lanmei rushed to his younger brother to the hospital, infusion, injection, condition stabilized, Li Lanmei scrub his body, daily feeding, watering, days later, at home, only to find his younger brother will not speak.
so as to teach child and teach his younger brother to speak, . garbage, Liu Wan exercise, his younger brother often only picked up a plastic bag to go home to bed.
more trouble is, younger brother often defecate in the bedding, but Li Lanmei angry over not once, or suffer the stench will take apart and wash bedding over and over again, she thought, not anxious, after all, a mentally retarded younger brother people.
impact: children rushing to care for disabled uncle
husband's brother lives with three of disability, days of rigid, but Li Lanmei always in a good mood all day, in her eyes, Three husband's brother is really not a burden, take care of their own children the same care as normal.
to take care of husband's brother who lived in her parents she was not married, the parents are good, sick is not to tell her each time she returned to her parents, all come and gone, parents see the side, hurried She is almost back to live in her parents, parents do not trust her to follow the three husband's brother.
counted, Li Lanmei looking after his three brothers have been disabled for 28 years, has 56 years of age, the head of black hair has turned into a lot of hair.
married into her husband's family, because her character ability, but also in the village for many years served as director of the village women, each year before the Spring Festival, the civil affairs department has sent down the relief, the other village cadres have been proposed, to her home because she reared three disabled husband's brother, but she always refused on the grounds that their own cadres, have to take head.
not only relief, the village's five guarantees to take care of her often, every time they meet, are secretly give a thirty twenty, who almost always full of money. In her eyes, to take care of the weak is the duty of man.
the children are older, and his son married a wife and my daughter married a man, but the son of individual enterprises to the village to work, so the wife and daughter have become Li Lanmei raising three disabled husband's brother's helper.
Li Lanmei kids are watching every move in the eyes, then they all do what I do, uncle, daughter to the three barber, laundry, and daughter rushing to dry.
Li Lanmei peace of mind, and she worried about the past, more and more his age, husband's brother who can not take care, and now the footsteps.
2009 年 5 months, Gaoyang implementation of 120 yuan subsidy, although not much, but she was very warm, behind the government, there are social, three husband's brother is not alone.
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