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　　每隔半小时帮老人翻一下身，每隔一小时为老人更换一次褥垫；半天为老人做一次按摩，一天为老人擦洗一次 身子；如果老人大便困难，要用自制的圆头木棍辅助，甚至用手“帮忙”。这就是成安县63岁农民李庆平照料瘫 痪母亲的日常“功课”。为了照顾好母亲，他甚至关掉了自己的造纸厂，戒掉了烟酒。


　　据一位村民讲，李庆平与她的母亲好像真有心灵感应，只要老人一哼哼，他就知道对方想要什么。而若是换了 别人来伺候，老人就扭着头不吃不喝。
　　为了方便照顾母亲，李庆平与妻子商量之后，在他们的双人床前加上了一张单人床，并将老人抬进了自己的房 间。从此之后，他们开始了3个人同吃同住的生活。每天一大早，李庆平就要起床做饭，然后给老人洗漱、梳头、 喂水、喂饭。


　　同时，李庆平也特别感激老伴和儿女。正因为有了他们的感情支持和经济援助，李庆平才能将全部精力都放在 母亲身上，并不为一日三餐和日常开支发愁,监听器怎么使用。
　　李庆平认为，照顾一个没有语言表达能力的高龄瘫痪病人,手机监听器哪里有卖，可不像做饭、扫地那么简单。每次要喂多少水，什么时间开始喂饭，每天按摩哪些部位，力度需要多大等等，其 他人是很难了解清楚的。
　　正因为如此，李庆平连自己的老伴和妹妹也不“信任”，每天即使再苦再累，也要亲自陪伴在母 亲左右。

　　慈母青年守寡老年瘫痪
　　对此，李庆平沉思良久：“我原本也是一个很有抱负的人，还曾梦想着成为知名企业家。可我怎么也没想到， 老母亲竟会突然瘫痪在床，更没料到这一躺就是15年。这或许就是命运的安排吧。也许是母亲此前没有闲过一天 ，上天觉得她太累了，有意让她好好休息一下。”李庆平说，随着时间的推移，他已经习惯了眼前的一切，不仅没 有感到累，反而觉得是一种福气。如今，他最大的心愿就是想创造一个人间奇迹：让母亲活到100 岁。

　　在大多数家庭中，因为女性较男性心细、温柔，更擅长做家务，所以照料老人、病人的重任，多由妇女承担。 可是，李庆平为什么一定要亲手照料老人，而不请保姆，或让自己的妹妹，以及子女来伺候老人呢？

　　因为担心老人的四肢长时间不运动会出现萎缩，李庆平每隔半小时就要帮老人翻一下身；因为老人失去了语言 能力，且大小便失禁，他需要时常查看老人的被褥，平均每隔一小时就得更换一次褥垫；因为老人经常出现大便困 难的现象,监听卡，他就用自制的圆头木棍辅助，甚至用手“帮忙”。此外，李庆平每天还要为老人做两次按摩，擦洗一次身子。也 曾有人建议李庆平给母亲插上排尿管，省得总要换褥垫，可他担心母亲受罪，坚决不肯用，宁肯自己常年睡不上一 次安稳觉。
　　“其实我也盼着能有个人来替我照看母亲，但我又实在放心不下。老人劳累了一辈子，如今又瘫痪在床，太让 人痛心了。”一提起童年往事，李庆平的眼圈就开始发红：“我不想再让老人受任何罪，只有我才懂得母亲的心里 最需要什么！”



　　5月1日上午，正当人们以各种方式欢度节日时，李庆平依然像往常一样守候着瘫痪在床的老母亲。他先用双 手小心翼翼地将老人的头摆正，然后用小勺一口一口地喂水，还不时用毛巾擦去老人嘴角的口水。


　　穷人的孩子早当家。在母亲的影响下，李庆平长大后，不仅肯吃苦，而且有闯劲，渐渐成了村中的“能人”。 1994年，他贷款买断了村办造纸厂，一年就能获利数万元。贫困的日子终于过去了，一家人满心欢喜，日子过 得十分红火。


　　李庆平原以为幸福会一直持续下去，辛劳了大半生的母亲，可以安享一个幸福的晚年。然而，1996年2月 29日，李庆平的母亲突然因脑出血摔倒在地，不省人事。经医院全力抢救，老人的性命保住了，却落了个半身瘫 痪，生活不能自理。这一年，李庆平48岁，他的母亲68岁。
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　　俗话说，久病床前无孝子。可李庆平为了照顾瘫痪的母亲，毅然停掉了自己的造纸厂，也不再寻找任何商机， 他的心里真的没有遗憾吗？李家曾是村中数得着的富户，如今却只能靠儿女种地来糊口，李庆平甚至不得不戒掉了 烟酒，他真的不觉得苦吗？

　　在他10岁那年，父亲患肝病离开了人世，年仅29岁的母亲独自扛起了抚养一双儿女的重担。“为了养家糊 口，母亲白天从事繁重的田间劳动，晚上还要纺花、织布。因为点不起油灯，她就点上一根香，借助香头的微弱光 线纺花、织布。”上个世纪六七十年代，家中的粮食不够吃，偶尔才能吃顿面条。可母亲每次都将面条全部挑给李 庆平和妹妹，她自己则用面汤煮些野菜吃。
　　母亲瘫痪在床，造纸厂又需要打理。是回家尽孝，还是继续经营工厂？李庆平心中矛盾重重。
　　李庆平今年64岁，是邯郸市成安县东保庄村农民。在他的心目中，母亲是一们非常贤惠、善良的女人，偏偏 一生都命运多舛，几乎没享过一天福。

　　对于“孝顺”两个字，李庆平有着自己的朴素理解：那就是父母操劳了一辈子很不容易，当他们有了困难时， 做儿女的一定要勇于承担责任，不要让老人吃苦受罪。


　　李庆平说，长期以来，因为一门心思照料老人，两耳不闻窗外事，他的心态已变得非常平和。也许正是因为这 个原因，虽然他已经63岁了，身体却从未出过任何毛病。
　　李庆平的女儿说，15年来，父亲为了照顾好奶奶，放弃了原本不错的生意，戒掉了烟酒，甚至连过年也没有 走过亲戚串过门。他甚至都不再过问外面的事情，几乎过上了“与世隔绝”的生活。
　　只有我才懂得母亲的需要

　　“母亲这一辈子太不容易了，一个人把我们拉扯大，受了多少苦啊。因为担心儿女受委屈，她终生都不肯改嫁 ，这其中的辛酸，只有我们做儿女的才明白。现在，母亲瘫痪了，需要儿女照顾，我也决不能让老人受半点儿委屈 。”于是，李庆平决定关闭工厂，留在家中专心伺候老人。他当时的想法很简单，“母亲的身体比金钱更重要。反 正自己有经验，以后老人的病好了，还可以创办新企业。”

　　寒来暑往，花开花谢，不知不觉中，李庆平已在母亲身边守候了15个春秋。在他的精心照料下，老人身上总 是干干净净的，不仅从未得过褥疮，而且房间里也闻不到一点儿异味。
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