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2109540 2010 年 12 月 28 日 11:22 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
1. crushed cans
the past, a man carrying a very beautiful jar hurry, walked, accidentally, stone head, suddenly into pieces. Passers-by saw him, except to marvel at, all for such a beautiful jar into pieces and regret. But that smashes the pot of people, are like not such a thing as the head does not twist about, do not watch the pot to see at a glance, business as usual cast in his way.
people are surprised when crossing the road, why this person is so free and easy, what a beautiful jar, ah, broken and what a pity! Some people even suspect that this person has the nerve is normal.
Later, someone asked this man why?
the man said: Super enjoyment. Lost is lost, why should empty nostalgia it? If nostalgia useful, must continue our efforts to do?
2. the road rock
King Ferdinand from his decision to select one of the ten princes do heir. He told a minister in private waterfront on both sides of the road in a place a piece of to go around. Then the king told the prince passed the piece of road, respectively, to a secret letter to a minister as soon as the hands. Princes quickly completed the task. Prince Ferdinand who began to ask:; One said:
? rock Naturally, the good succession to the throne Prince to try.
major principles: the fate of their own to others, even to a person, not their brains a little, but believe others it was too dangerous. They have to learn to master their own destiny.
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3.
mirror and was at its peak when a young man but was found suffering from leukemia, a myriad of despair suddenly enveloped his heart, he felt that life has no meaning, refused to accept any treatment.
a late autumn afternoon, he escaped from the hospital, wandering the streets aimlessly. Suddenly, a burst of bold, slightly hoarse and unusual music appealed to him. Not far away, a blind old man to get a piece of shiny instruments, the flow of people toward the sparse playing with emotion. Another point noticeable is a mirror hanging on the arms of the blind!
curious young man on the ground before the conclusion of play to take advantage of the blind one asked:
blind man smiled and said: take it everywhere. treatment,
一对男女朋友困在山洞里,男朋友居然吃了女朋友的……, although each chemotherapy pain he would feel a very tough battle, but after that he never ran away before.
he tough enough to stand the pain of treatment, finally appeared a miracle, he recovered. Since then, he has a life, two precious treasure: a positive and optimistic attitude and stand firm in the faith.
major principles: to take their own life and destiny, there must be optimistic and a strong quality, as optimism and a strong course of life is in charge of the helm to grasp the fate of power boat propeller.
4. quit
A on B said: I applaud you repay this broken company, must give it some color to see. but you have to leave now, is not the best time. characters, and then abruptly left the company with these customers, the company will be subject to significant losses, very passive. Then something like half a year of hard work, he had many loyal customers.
meet again BQA: had a long talk with me, ready to promote me to assistant general manager, I do not intend to leave. A person's work, always just for their resumes. Only to pay more than be, let the boss really is greater than your ability to see the location and give you more opportunities to create more profit for him.
major principles: Do not blindly blame the environment to bring people a lot of inconvenience, in fact, the environment itself is an objective reality, who is in that location would encounter the same problem, smart people efforts to transform the Bale.
5. three of the best teachers
1960, Harvard University, Dr. Rosenthal has been a school in California did a famous experiment.
the new semester began, Dr. Rosenthal called for principals to three teachers into his office and said to them: teacher. Therefore, we deliberately selected a school of 100 students in the most intelligent form three classes to teach you. These students are higher IQ than other children, I hope you will allow them to get better results. to express a certain try.
principals and told them to treat these children, we must as usual, do not let the child or the child's parents knew they were deliberately chosen. Teachers all agreed.
year later, the three classes of student achievement throughout the school district really came in the forefront.
time, the principal told the teacher the truth: These students were not deliberately elected best students, but are randomly drawn the most common student.
teachers did not think this is so, consider themselves really high standard of teaching.
principals and tell them when the other truth, that is, they are not intended to be selected out of the school the best teachers, it was no ordinary teacher Bale randomly drawn.
truths: There is no genius in this so-called genius is by their own efforts, discover the potential within themselves to change their fate, those who are not geniuses but to allow their potential to continue to hide Bale.
6.
father and son holding his son donkey donkey into the city, on the way some people laugh at them: stupid, do not ride a donkey!
father sent for his son on a donkey, go soon, and some people say: What a filial son to his father even walk!
father called his son up off the back of his donkey ride, someone said: What a cruel father, afraid of the child exhausted!
father quickly called the son on a donkey back. Who knows Some people also said: Two people riding on the donkey, not afraid to run over that skinny ass?
donkey father and son Sign slipped down the back, the donkey tied up four feet, carrying a stick. After a bridge, the donkey because of discomfort, struggled down the results fell into the river and drowned!
major principles: a person must be assertive, have the ability to judge right and wrong, it will not be swayed by opinions of others. Do not live in someone else's opinion to rely on their own feet to walk, his head thinking.
7.
once the size of the shark and friends to the aquarium.
have a visitor asked the administrator, said: depends on how much of your aquarium. said:: environment can change a person's thinking. Environment can limit people's thinking, people can limit their own thoughts. Do not give yourself framing, you can not change the environment to change yourself from the start.
8. Meet a master
Dafa, has been concentrated hard training, trained for decades had a
was reverently ask: Master smiled and said:, is you can not change, or at least temporarily can not be changed.
major principles: if things can not change, you change yourself. Only by changing ourselves, others will eventually change; only change themselves before they can finally change their own world. Hill, if but to, then you have to do in the past it!
9. calligrapher
two years in the Qing Dynasty Emperor Qianlong, two calligraphers. A very serious imitation of the ancients, pay attention to each picture to be exactly like so and so, as in a cross to be like Su , and a flick to be like Mi Fu. Naturally, once they got this far, he is quite proud of.
the other is just the opposite, not only hard to practice, also calls for every sum of each painting is different from the ancients, pay attention to nature, until they got this far, then they would feel my heart at ease.
One day, the first second calligrapher calligrapher mocking, said: the latter is not angry , but smiling, asked the sentence:; the first hearing, suddenly tongue-tied.
major principles: people should never take the path through the local road, not devoid of his own personality and blindly imitate others, which would only lose themselves, and even their own destiny who could not handle the.
11. Apply
20 century and the early 70s, the US optimistic about McDonald's Corporation, China Taiwan market. They entered the Taiwan market, you need a group of senior cadres in the local training,
冰泪草, so an open audition choice . Because of the demands of the standards are high, many inexperienced young people are not adopted.
After repeated screening, a young man named Han Dingguo stand out. The last round before the interview, McDonald's President and Handing Guo about three times, and asked him a unexpected question:; not wait for him to speak, one side will be free Korean wife replied: the last interview on the spot decided to hire Handing Guo. Handing Guo
later learned that McDonald's training staff to wash the toilet first lesson is from the beginning, because the service's basic theory is start with the start of the humble start, be possible to understand the Handing Guo was able to become well-known entrepreneurs, is a start, will be able to humble the little things, others do not want to do.
major principles: not to overlook every little thing, because every event is a piece by the little things. Only do a good positive attitude with every little thing, be possible to do great things.
12. Treat opponents
Zoo recently introduced from abroad a very aggressive Puma for people to watch. In order to better serve guests who come from afar, the zoo's administrators every day, a beautifully prepared meals, and deliberately opened up a big space for activities and play it. However, it is always depressed and downhearted.
probably arrived in a foreign land, a little homesick? Who would have thought had more than two months, Jaguar is still the same , do not even want to eat a meal.
seeing it will die, the principal of panic, and quickly invited multi-veterinary treatment, test results and little ill. Desperation, it was suggested, as several put Jaguar on the grass, maybe some hope.
accidentally discovered the original one, whenever there is a tiger after, the Jaguar will always stand up Numuxiangxiang, combat readiness.
Sure, all the jaguar habitat to join, become active immediately wary Puma, but also restored to its former prestige.
major principles: life, only with opponents, will always inspire us to maintain high morale, continue to tap their own potential. Treat your opponent, because his presence is like a shot in the arm; thank you for your opponent, right, and he will make you a majestic
13.
mind when Socrates a bachelor,
玉树地震两孤儿:我们不哭!, lived with some friends only seventy-eight square meters in a small room. Although life is very inconvenient, but he is always in a good mood all day long.
someone asked him: Socrates said: have a family one, has moved out. Socrates left the house one person, but he is still very happy day.
The man then asked: ah! a book is a teacher. and so many teachers together, they can ask all the time, this how unpleasant it? Socrates has become a home, moved into a building. The building is seven, and his home in the bottom. The underlying environment in this building is the worst, always above the water splashed to the following, throwing dead rats, broken shoes, socks, and assorted dirty, that person see the way he was an own entertainment, curiosity Q: stairs; moving things easy, do not have to spend a lot of strength; friends came to visit easily, no need to go floor by floor and knock asked ... ... I am particularly pleased that, can raise a bunch of open space on a cluster of flower, plant a stretch of a stretch of the dish, these fun Yeah, countless ah!
over a year, give the room a layer of Socrates to a friend, the friend's house there is a paralysis of the elderly, the downstairs is very convenient. He moved to the top of the building - the seventh floor, but he is still happily every day.
teasing the man asked:, day and night are very quiet. I feel that the environment in which every time he is not so okay.
major principles: At work, calm and optimistic attitude is the most important. Any objective environment of discontent and complaining is of no avail, only to face the spirit of positive work is the best way to solve the problem.
14. How long
a shorter tournament fighting master, thinking to win, will be able to win the championship.
Surprisingly, in the final, he met a considerable strength of opponents, both sides make every effort to attack. When the fight hit the middle of the fighting master realized that he could not find each other a number of flaws, while the other attacks are often able to break through their defensive vulnerability.
results of the competition can imagine, other men in the fighting master defeat, but also lose the championship trophy.
angry to find his own master, one with a style to be fighting each other and the course of his speech to the Master to see again, and asked the master to help him find the style of the other flaws. He was determined based on these flaws, and worked hard enough to overcome the other's new book, determined in the next game, against the other to regain the championship trophy.
language teacher laughed, drew a line on the ground, he does not want to erase this line of cases, trying to get this line is short.
fighting master puzzling , how could the line piece is shorter freeze it? Finally, he did not think to want to go any way, had to ask again to the master.
did not expect to master it in the original line was next to that, but also drew a longer line. Between the two, the original that line, it looks really seems a lot shorter.
Master opening: that line as the original, becomes shorter in comparison the. how to make more, is the root of the problem. opponents, we must find ways to make itself more powerful. Only you get longer, the match will become short.
15. The bucket can hold to make the most of the water, anyone can inherit his throne.
eldest son as his own bucket bigger, so that when the bezel is not the last Tongbi a timber; and younger son to use the average of these boards and made Tongbi not seem very high a barrel.
old king so they use their own barrels to hold water, but the result is the youngest son and the most humble bucket filled with water, finally get to the throne.
major principles: a lot of time just depends on the piece of our development
16.
a basket full of stones people think life is very heavy, he went to see philosophers as Plato, to seek liberation.
Plato did not say anything, just give him a basket to his back on his shoulders, and pointed to a Shashi Lu said: go and see what it feels like.
After a child, the man reached the end of the alley, Plato asked what he felt.
man said: feeling more tired. asked him:
Plato said: give us a gift, there are responsibilities and obligations. when you feel heavy, perhaps you should be glad that they are not another, because his basket than most of you, and also more heavy. such a thought, your Lou Zili not to have more fun yet?
major principles: A life already has a lot of happiness and joy, do not always put the burden of the past back on the body, mind. Use an optimistic attitude, and more to think about happy things, you will find the hearts of the natural a lot easier.
17. pressure
One of the lecturers are lessons to students, we all listened carefully. Silence in the classroom came a rich voice: Some say two hundred grams, some said that three hundred grams. Many people laughed: two hundred grams only, how long to take what happens!
instructor did not laugh, he added: may call an ambulance.
lecturer continued:, a long time will feel heavy and can not afford more. We have to do is put down the glass of water, rest and then picked up the only way we can take longer. Therefore, we assumed the pressure should be at the appropriate time to lay down and have a good rest, and then picked up again, so can take longer.
major principles: As society progresses, people also followed more and more busy. Then, the burden heavier. May wish to lay down their burdens at the appropriate time to relax, so adjust the state pick up again.
18. Washington, look for a horse
Washington is the first US president, his young look for a horse when there are anecdotal cases.
day, his father, a horse had been stolen. Washington, along with a police officer to steal the horse farms of people go beg, but the man refuses to return, insisted: cover the horse's eyes, of the stolen horses, said:. Washington kept his right eye
hands down, the horse is not blind right eye.
Washington has kept
left hand down, the horse did not blind left eye.
truths: brains, wrong way into the opponent, his mistake is your victory.
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19.
campaign speeches during the election campaign, former US President Bill Clinton had encountered such a thing.
time, he was a campaign speech, suddenly, a saboteur loudly shouted : Obviously, this person meant to say: intended only to appease, said: favorable.
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20. Mafu the horsefly
When Lincoln came to power, some opponents who hired a consultant. Whenever a policy proposed by the opposition to put forward their views against it. Government officials to resign from the consultant . Lincoln told a story:
day, a person walking trail in the countryside and saw a farmer plowing is to catch a horse. When he stepped forward to prepare for the time greeting the farmer, and suddenly see the horse's flanks are a lot of cattle on the fly. Obviously, it would only horsefly bites the horse is, but to bite the horse very uncomfortable, so he wanted to cow flies off.
As he raised his hand, when the farmer stopped him. The farmer said: reason: In many cases, it is precisely these give you trouble and unfortunately, people or things with you constantly make progress.
21. Jefferson Building
; Washington Square, there is a magnificent building, which is the Jefferson Memorial Building. Vicissitudes of life after the storm the building, dilapidated, old mottled surface. Government is very concerned to send experts to investigate the cause.
survey results that the erosion of the original buildings are acid rain, but later studies showed that acid rain will not cause so much harm. Finally I realized that is contained in the detergent wash the walls of the building has a strong corrosive effect, and the walls of the building the number of times a day to be washed much more than other buildings, so corrosion is more serious.
major principles: Some problem is not as complicated as we look, but we have not found a simple way to solve the problem. The question is why every day cleaning it? Because the buildings are a large number of bird droppings get dirty. Why there are so many buildings guano? Because a lot of birds gathered around buildings. Why swallow his love gathered here? Because the buildings are birds eat spiders. Why is particularly spiders here? Because the wall spiders like to eat the insects. Why are so many flies here? Because insects reproduce so quickly here. Why do insects reproduce so quickly here? Because here the most appropriate dust flies propagation. Why are most appropriate where the dust flies breed? The reason is not in the dust, but dust in the bright light shining through the window under the effect of the stimulation resulted in the formation of a unique flying insects breed faster, and thus a large number of insects gathered in this extraordinary passion to breed, so a spider provides a rich feast. Spider extraordinary gathering has attracted hordes of swallows away. Swallow full, natural place convenient to the building left a lot of manure ... ...
ultimate solution to the problem therefore is to: draw the curtains. Jefferson Building, now in good condition.