children benefit from the nine habits of a lifetime (Source: Business Wire)
wise young children when parents should cultivate good habits of his, so that children would benefit from awareness of the formation of life, the children used the following nine are essential for success.
one good habit - a positive choice
1. Things are often two sides of the child to speak, let the children know all things are positive and negative side.
2. With a positive view of children, appreciate their strengths, and tell them the benefits of a positive view of the problem, let them choose a positive personal experience.
3. The existence of the weaknesses of the child, to an objective look, and even positive view, I believe that the child will be better.
4. When children in a bad mood, and told him with a positive attitude to solve the problem.
5. To create a relaxed and happy at home and living environment.
The second
good habits - independence is a prerequisite
1. Help children discover their own abilities.
parents believe their children must first be able to separate, the same time create the conditions in life for the children to discover their own abilities. You can make some small, easily achievable goals, so that children experience in the successful experience the joy of independence.
2. When to let go of as much as possible to let go.
cold, the parents said their children were not asked to \The children's independence, sometimes parents do not their children every possible way.
3. respect for the child's choice is to allow children to be independent of the premise.
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basketball athlete had said with deep feeling, the most difficult and most do not trust the problem is to allow the children do not follow me to help them determine the path of development and independent to decide their own dreams. \
4. Children have an independent thought.
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The third good practice
strong sense of responsibility ---
1. From simple to complex, from easy to difficult, consciously in the family some suitable arrangement for children, whatever the task, such as cleaning, is responsible for watering plants, etc., see if he can complete, completed immediately be encouraged.
2. Listen to the recommendations of a child on family life.
children often talk about the home purchase expenses, personnel contacts, and asked the child to talk about their own views, or ideas to find ways to please their children. When the parents often listen to their views, to adopt their valuable advice, when the children will remember with affection the hearts of family responsibility.
3. Let the children learn self-service, not always for children, said: \
children's growth rate is staggering, far beyond the imagination of adults. Adults believe that children can not do, may have been perfectly capable of managing the child. Therefore, parents should try to give them some training opportunities, so that children can enhance the sense of responsibility in the self-service.
4. Emphasize the results of doing things, so that children develop or do not do everything, what must do serious and doing well, doing excellent self requirements.
5. Do not promise the parents to the children what the children requested features to comply with his age, or the child is not easy to sustain said,
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good habit of four --- perseverance and determination
1. The child set some specific goals, to do every day, and in a timely manner to encourage them.
2. When the children insist on doing one thing and achieved certain results, give them a reward. Awards may not be material, can be a look, a smile, or a child to make a progress record.
3. Easy to cultivate the habit from the beginning, and gradually develop the child's stamina, so slowly we can achieve sustained.
Some parents feel that their children do not always long ######, not insist on doing things, and some parents believe that perseverance is the nature of things, there is no way to train, so the only \In fact, the persistence can train them, and develop habits is a good way to increase stamina,
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good habits of five ---
confidence
1. My attitude is often self-confidence and low self-esteem.
If a person with a positive attitude to good look at themselves, it is easy to self-confidence; If you always look at their own negative attitude, low self-esteem is easy. Therefore, in this respect the parents guide and help children see the positive side of things.
2. Confidence is accumulated.
the easy thing to do successfully to increase self-confidence, the failure to do one thing, it is easy to increase the sense of inferiority. Therefore, we recommend parents not to set unrealistic goals children, so not only can not help their children succeed, it will crack down on children's self-confidence.
3. Develop the spirit of the child's nails.
nail has been able to nail the wall hard, first because it is very sharp, the target is not great; second, because the nail, we use a hammer, is to use great force. If we had not a nail with a hammer, but with fists smashing Ganmian battle, they will not get nailed, because the target is too large, the force is too small. Parents must give their children the truth about something similar and stories, let the children know how to do things the relationship between objectives and forces, and to deal with the spiritual life of the nail encounter accidents.
4. Let the child believe that God has created me for something.
everything in the world, has its own personality characteristics and use, thus formed the universe. Parents give their children the truth about this, but also to the kids to nature, let the children see landscape plants. Tell your child's physical stature and there's mountains, the water gurgling of water, flowers have the fragrance of flowers, grass green grass. Parents must be good at discovering the child's strengths and unique characteristics, and carried forward in time to their characteristics.
Six good habits
--- learn to respect
1. The important feature is to give people respect for the opportunity to develop assertive personalities.
So, whether self-esteem or respect for others, we do not need to see the others fixed pattern, requiring people. I believe the behavior of each person has their own right reason.
2. To respect children's ideas, not always the child as being the target of education, give the child the opportunity to express their views. This means that parents give their children to set an example, let the children know what is respect.
3. Respect other people's labor.
respect, not only to respect everyone's ideas and personality, but also to respect other people's labor. For example, when people put in a clean sweep, you know how to cherish; When a friend invited you to dinner, you know how to thank ... ...
4. Respect for different classes. Respect to stress that each person's life experience, as is everyone, it shows that every life can have a different experience. Therefore, when in the face of vulnerable groups,
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5. The premise of respect for democracy, so parents should be as much as possible to create democracy in the home environment, which is silent train.
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seven habits to maintain good credit
1. Parents lead by example, act as one, to colleagues, friends, neighbors, the children good faith, the speech to be honest, there is credit.
2. If there is a problem, parents do not pass the buck, and do not teach children to pass the buck.
responsibility and credibility is linked, if responsibility for their children,
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3. To the children create a \Over time, will gradually develop the habit of faith.
4. Do not take any chances, not too small cheap.
either learning or life, should tell the child not because they are cheap, a small cheap will ruin any credibility you. Be honest with everyone and everything and everyone around you will also have to pay you in good faith.
good habit of eight --- beneficial to all
1. Parents at home, we all try to find some interesting things to do, we are interested in the benefit of all, do happy, having a good time, let the children understand \Parents not only consider the children's interests, but also added to their own interests,
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2. Find some selfish, harmed themselves and others report showed children watch, time for discussion with children, analysis of the relationship between people, let the children talk about how to get along best.
3. To the market to buy things like a child, we should let the children understand the principles of successful trading is beneficial to all, we get something they like, traders made money. If we allow traders lose money, he certainly will not sell anything.
4. Children and friends in the process of communication, encourage the child to others for consideration. People around you can start to start, such as the parents sake, for the sake of my grandparents, for the sake of the students and so on.
Nine ---
good habit to treat others
1. Treat others must learn to know people.
Some parents used to say: \It should be said, the parents to understand their children, we must first listen to a child, hearing a lot of kids will know what they thought, he hopes, they complain about something, what is required. It is therefore recommended to the parents and children squatted equal dialogue, but also to teach children to learn to understand the people around, with an equal view of the surrounding environment and their own different people.
2. Treat others must learn to appreciate people.
experts have talked about a strange phenomenon. He said that once held Chinese and foreign children test, test scores after the children take home to their respective countries were the parents see a result, Chinese parents saw the child's performance, 80% were dissatisfied, while foreign parents and 80 % satisfied. The actual results do? In fact, the results of foreign children in China not as a child. This shows that Chinese parents used to look with a critical eye to their children, look at other people and the world. The appreciation of foreign parents accustomed to look upon children, look at other people and the world. Therefore, it is recommended that parents appreciate the vision to look at children, and teach children to discover the strengths of others, sincere appreciation for others.
3. Treat others must learn to love people.
Treat others
This is the most important point. Education is the great secret of love, we often say I'm sorry to love their children make mistakes, but also what it means. Let the child know how parents love their elders, the students love, love the teacher.
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