Yang Huilin Phi Ma mourn the letter to his father, has written to dawn.
this belated letter, Yang Huilin written more than 20 letters.
the sudden death of his father, his daughter remembered her father had hoped to send home letters, and she is not implemented because of a busy ... ...
day before yesterday, Yang Huilin's father died sudden stroke. Greatly grieved, she is starting from 0:00 yesterday, 24 hours a day to write to his father, his father wanted to love and memory and regret, all of a letter written a letter, sent to heaven.
Mo lost their parents until the only regret he did not know how to cherish family.
0:00 Daddy, I write to you
letter to you, you left me and mom. did not leave a word, you know how sad my mother and I? Do you know how much my mother and I miss you? / p>
0:00 yesterday, Zhongxian suburban funeral parlor, Yang Huilin picked up a pen, a laptop, a single word read, the tears fall down constantly. The day before yesterday, his father Yang Sheng Jin passed away due to a sudden stroke.
28-year-old Yang Huilin teach at Chongqing Technology and Business University. Why not stop writing? It turned out that her father often called and told her to write to send home. At this point think of it, then send letters home if even for one, even if only just a few words, the more wonderful! Yang Huilin regret not cope.
Yang Huilin 0:00 from yesterday, has been writing, she kept writing, trying to her father's thoughts of love and all the memories, the whole place later.
3:00 Father, I will always write to you
it! I'm here, has been written. I've been busy with work and forget to write. Now, I use a handwritten letter in the letter, to make up for all the regret. Letter
behind her mother walked Xiong Xiangyu, quietly picked up a letter written in full, saw her daughter to give her husband a child hair cut, cooked fish soup of memory, all written in the letter , suddenly bursting into tears. She advised her daughter stop writing, so even more sad,
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relatives and friends tried to persuade her not to write. But Yang Huilin not agree, but they are not allowed near her writing table. 4:30, Yang Huilin swollen eyes, mental fatigue, the strength to even hold a pen is running low, but to be more write a letter to her father, she persisted. Wrote dawn, was to mourn,
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6:00 Daddy, I want the letter sent to heaven
Unexpectedly, have become dead.'d known it was the last conversation, I will not hang up the phone ... ... Immigration father before his death in Zhong County to work after retirement, returned to first-line, each phone call, he is in the countryside, resettlement or overtime. June of this year, his father said to go to urban areas to visit the daughter, until his death, he is busy failed to fulfill its promise.
Today, Yang Huilin retrospect did he realize his father would rather worn, and do not squandering home penny. She also recalled that she did not accompany his father bought a dish. If I could go back, if film in the Box turn back the clock, she must buy new clothes to his father, accompanied his father to buy food, write a lot of letters sent home to parents to receive the urban life with her.
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all the children she would like to remark: cherish every minute with their parents, the only way to leave no trace of regret.
public survey
the respondents were lack of communication with parents,
Yesterday, the newspaper public research centers to questions were randomly QQ 50 users online survey. Near the respondents were considered
lack of communication with parents of the respondents, 73% of the reasons given was Home to see parents, Yu Sancheng respondents said parents with only fruit, gifts or give money. Will accompany their parents to chat and do household chores 56%.
data show a lack of communication with parents, adults, the years or more.
phone or cell phone information to communicate with their parents, accounting for 80%. Call my parents every week, or send mobile phone text messages, accounting for 52% of the total respondents, including the two adults that or communication, or even never contact and communication.
As for the letter to their parents and other traditional means of communication, only 2%.
expert ideas
arrangement and can not wait
children becoming full wing, but can not forget the home of their parents Yi Men expectations. Gap because of two generations, thinking of filial piety, do not know how to express, so that the heart is painful. Or is it like as Yang Huilin, like filial piety but no opportunity.
How do we obey their parents, how to communicate with them then? Let us look at City Academy of Social Sciences Research Center, Sun Yuanming Psychological Weapon for you.
believe parents are the favorite of my
Zhou Cong, who lives in River City road Jiulongpo D Tianxing Building
participate in work rarely go home, the parents Huijia often urges him to see. 27-year-old Zhou Ting can be wronged, I feel like a kid when his parents, wisdom for things to be anything, home is not a bit happy.
Sun Yuanming: This phenomenon is very common. This phenomenon is the process of parenting, do not pay attention to communication caused. But, regardless of the opinions and practices of the parents right or wrong, all because of love of children. For the wanderers, it can not follow suit, but still want to listen more and talk to their parents can remember.
parents often say work late, even if the work early, want to be with friends go shopping, eating, time together with their parents, very little. His parents felt that wanderers so big, even if no one intimate said.
Sun Yuanming: filial piety can not wait, as the careers of young people, parents should pay attention to communication, have the opportunity to spend more time with their parents. Diary of the parents of the students to the phone, the holiday comes,
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to help parents develop hobbies
Chen Cheng, who lives in a village Jiulongpo Yangjiaping Xinhua's
ago I do not know how to communicate with their parents feelings. Some time ago, friends asked him to parents to buy piano, buy plants, badminton, etc., so that parents have something to do, this way, the old man's life is very colorful.
Sun Yuanming: parents after retirement, most is time, toil a lifetime of parents, how to spend long time, the children should be of concern. If they had have hobbies, should be encouraged to continue to adhere to. If there is no love, to help parents develop hobbies to enrich their spiritual life.
been reading about is my parents happy
Wang Wei, who lives in a large three-unit of Hong Kong City Ferry, 9th Floor
he felt that parents are repetitious, and, is full of small potatoes, was very troubled.
Sun Yuanming: Why do parents love reading about? Not because of love of their children. As a child,
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