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150172 2010 年 03 月 29 日 23:28 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Web Abstract
If you love a person, would willingly for him / her to change. If a person in front of you its own way, set the behavior you do not like the expense, then he is not love you. a person really love you, love you all, even if do not like it, it will not rebuke you, will try to change your bad habits, but must be good. If you do not like your other half of the little habits, would you ask him / her to change it for you?
real life no one is perfect, everyone has their own cute side, and also has his flaws on the other side. that they are the most horrible place, holding people can not adapt to each other. love you, I love him / her all, not demanding perfection, demanding the other side do not change anything for you. If you go to take seriously their own half, the intention to protect this operation and harsh were feeling, you will find the shortcomings of the original one is also lovely.
two people together would definitely like each other because together, change will not deliberately requirements. feelings are the basis of two people together, if only to allow the other party to change to suit your own preferences, somewhat over- , everyone has their own way of life and their own expression,
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before the two sides have different living and working environment, with many have different habits and ideas; if not adjusted, the two sides will have conflicts, but it is impossible to change each other, change over,
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not to change the other half for himself, but the two sides to adjust to each other, after all, two people from different environments and different populations meet, run-in period, when the fight is inevitable, so adjust themselves to each other, how to adapt to the feeling of two people together, should be adjusted slowly, slowly changing.
obtained or the pursuit of love in the process, in order to better get along with both sides, must be changed more or less self-right, that is, you will inevitably lose part of the self, psychological, physical ,
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find the other half, we leave alone the relationship is harmonious, even we can assume that they have not truly become a half and half, or just wishful, then the situation should be done? inevitable, you will in the psychological the other half get a part, more or less, or true or false, but temporary, and you get.
fate is to find an inclusive person you these days more and more difficult to maintain a marriage, only one ulcer used to be seven years,
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Indeed, easy to get along in love, marriage and love become the biggest difference: that Step on the shortcomings of worship before the court, in the end will be strange if a
so decide whether or not to marry (marry) his / her, you should first ask yourself: What I love is a part of him? this part of his all? Similarly, in deciding whether to divorce Before, it should first ask yourself: What I hate is a part of him? and this part of his all? In fact, no one is perfect, I believe that no one is deliberately not perfect. Growth two people from different environments, regardless of how the mind fit, will inevitably not be different. not so much one can hold their own fate is met with appreciation by those who appreciate the advantages, it is more make their own fate is to find a willing to be inclusive and tolerant drawback. love, or up a search and matching process, but marriage is a process of learning and adaptation. Marriage is not a tool you use to change the other. Many people think that after marriage, he would get rid of my bad habits, more tolerant me. but I do not know, Why is he no longer had to look for me, is not he love me anymore? But the key is not whether you are lucky enough not be a problem in the case of a partner, but if you can learn to communicate and grow together, as the turning point of the crisis.
so-called asked him to change, but to accept their shortcomings pointed out by the other party, to change ourselves from.