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a mature man at home is not such a problem.
1. First, your wife will argue with your mother, indicating that normally you do not set up in front of her authority, first of all to give you an idea of ​​your wife, your mother is older, you are respected your mother, let your wife know the elderly and no amount of wrong, we can not blame them, not your parents not you, so love your wife as you have to learn to respect your mother and your mother, tolerance and understanding. Do not attempt a half-buried in the old loess to make any changes for her, it is not possible. Therefore, tolerance must be understood junior elders, because she will have to grow old one day. More empathy.
2. Second, and more in front of your mother telling you that your wife is good, more in front of your wife that you are a good mother to her, do not let the intensification of conflicts between them, two women from different families, non-natural, very likely would have misunderstood each other, so you have to do peacemaker in the middle.


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respondents: shisuhui - an 2010-4-1 13:40

I asked my husband this question, if I did not come at his mother how to do. My husband said, Just let me do my filial piety, parents happy,red bull cap, I'm responsible for like. You do not worry. We do not understand is not common sense, good words, who do not want to listen, especially his heart to say it. Just because my husband told me that if I did not get along with pressure and her mother. Some topics I am not happy every time, although her husband does not favor me, but will take the initiative to stand up and change the subject. Recommendations to you
Women want to hear nice words, your wife is more to hear.
Proactive problem solving, and effective than your silence.
respondents: An Yueshi Qingping years - three 2010-4-1 13:57

quarrel remained silent, calm where the cause of later analysis. They will fight because you are there, so you want to keep a good attitude, optimistic smile.
respondents: wangxiaohui996 - an 2010-4-1 14:00

reason
respondents: Anya Figure - two 2010-4-- 1 14:34

is why the key thing to quarrel? What do you think there is a quarrel? Often abusive to the phase called the fight or argue, but just to talk about different views, discuss the not too noisy. Between mother-and daughter do not know your home is always like the first time. We live together, or occasionally a party? Better to have agreement at home, such as wife and mother to discuss the different views, but can not use offensive language on the in-laws (as long as there is, she is responsible to apologize afterwards), with such a convention would be much easier. Wife,Oakley Sunglasses, if able to do this, the situation will not happen to quarrel, then conflict is at the most severe lesson by her mother, or misunderstood. When the husband can be such a normal tone of voice so that his wife left the scene, such as can say: Why do not you go outside, walk it, or you go back to the room first, and I talk to Mom. At this time the tone to be neutral, not too soft,RayBan Sunglasses, it can not fierce. Do not let your mother-and daughter are standing either side. Of course, his wife also smarter, not too seriously children, husbands have to stand on our own side, it is neither possible nor appropriate. Until his wife left, a man can ask the mother's feelings, so that mothers have the opportunity to talk about. Then expressed understanding, but said to be gentle but firm, after such a thing, please come to me for you? Son has been married, that is, the parents of this little house,monster hats, this small family members should be parents to this little house management is not? Moreover, he is my wife, belongs to me, she had not, I can only say that she said she did not fit a second person. What if my mother only if you have Dad come on, is not it? This can effectively deal with family interaction is not it? Mom, I love you, have great respect for you. If you support my management of my family, but also respect me, I'm a man thing. If I were married, my mother is my business but also to helping the pipe is not a joke by others Yeah, is not it? This will not only cool down to mother, but also a line and let mom know the position, not to offend and hurt her mother's feelings. Then go on to discuss the matter with his wife, but also to ask how she felt? Listen to her, and then appreciate. You can say: hey, is not easy Yes, thank you for loving me and go through these affinity is very subtle, I believe you have made a lot of patience. However, because of the delicate relationship between marriage, we have to learn in it together, I think we can do later, if and mother have different views, or feel that the attitude of my mother when you do not like, you can tell her your idea, but Do not argue with her. But since a controversy, or do you think both sides are feeling, you calm down, my mother said: Mom, it is better so be it, we are being cool, so you do not get angry talk later okay? Then you can leave the atmosphere at that time. In any case this is not your fault. The other reason I deal with the most appropriate. You have to trust your husband. Couple more before the exercises and discussions will slowly form a family rules and the atmosphere. When the mother face-law, is an easy process,GUCCI Sunglasses, but also because of the two women love you. Therefore, this process may be some trouble, but their love for you is worth it. May you live a happy family!
respondents: rebeccazhan - four 2010-4-1 15:07

live separately. .
respondents: cute little girl SUU - eight 2010-4-1 15:27

I think both sides do not want to say too much, say who you are not more people still waiting for them themselves.
respondents: bj201314 - two 2010-4-1 21:47

you, like me, who are Zuiben.
Fight the problem of withdrawal of life after the wife and then my mother said that the good side, and then my mother said there's a good wife, not to mention the bad, bad to bad for themselves their own stomach it, a man very hard.
respondents: wupeng116 - four 2010-4-2 11:00

between the two sides not to the Well. My mother raised me well, I'm afraid there are problems, has not been much between her and live separately. Husband Well, you can not handle let your wife get, who said people give when the daughter is bullied, my dad put me develop great independence, her husband is a man fills me who bullied, who bully me! Not to mention her mother, her husband all to hit me! Do not come mess with me.
respondents: luby_lady - an 2010-4-2 11:12

is actually very simple
Communication
3 people with communication!
respondents: You know too much - an 2010-4-2 23:05

must be separated to live is to live with you like the most troublesome Where can I would like to live under one roof as long as always harmoniously and hum a little contradictory. . Have a wife who should not quarrel with your mother do not help or else your home will experience a shower of blood convulsion
responses: human nature 123 - a 2010-4-- 3 12:07