2011-5-20

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　　 发现自己的真正兴趣是一个很难的事情,因为这样的兴趣不是指业余兴趣,而是指专业兴趣.即与毕生发展的方向 有关的,这个事情确实不是一个简略的事情.
　　找到自己的真正兴致,象征着找到了自己尽力的方向,也就是找到了自己的斗争目的,如果可能做到这一点, 那显然不是泛泛之辈.
　　象孔子说十五有志于学,确切是属于早慧的,当然这与他成绩其成世师表位置是相当的,象咱们庸人20岁之 后仍旧不晓得自己该干什么.甚至到了30而破的年纪仍旧都没有找到感觉.许多时候我们不是自己要干什么,而 是不得不干什么,由于真的自己不找到自己该干什么,而是好像不这么就没有什么抉择.
　　是的,我们都缺乏设计自己的能力,也就是对自己缺乏自负,当然也就缺少预感能力了.
　　不外,我想每个人还是有自己的理想的,这个理想还是可以牵引你前进的,尽管还不是无比自发的,但究竟有 一个摇曳的灯影在晃动.如果没有幻想,则对将来就是完全无知的.
　　当然许多人对自己的未来有一种空想,完全是一种空幻,这种人在事实中也非常多,这类人属于 妄图症患者.
　　发现自己的兴趣其实也不难,如果你不长短常封锁自己的,时常去尝试自己的话,你确定就会发现自己兴趣的 ,一个人只有开放了自己的话,就会在交换中发现自己的上风和劣势,就会感到自己与别人的不同,就会缓缓地找 到自己的路.
　　如果你能够受到高人的点化,那当然是你的荣幸.许多时候是千里马常有而伯乐不常有,你能够找到一个你完 全信赖的人却不那么容易.如果你都没有找到让你信任的人,你肯定是无法受到点化的.
　　很多时候我们探索许久就是不得门道,但明眼人略微暗示,你就会即时懂得要旨,佛家讲这是机缘.是的,如 果你没有这个机缘的话,你可能苦苦摸索一世也没有得道的机遇.
　　其实每个人的机会都是很多的,这些机会就在身边,强果你做好了身边的事,机会也就有了.人如果存着一个 善念,有一颗真挚的心,不那么势利,你的机会永远是存在的.如果你缺乏这些,你就会永远不得法 门.
　　真正的机会终极仍然须要自己发明.我们每个人只要善于把握当下的时刻,你的机会是非常多.你如何掌握你 的声音全凭你是否善于聆听自己内在的声音.其实我们每个人都是有自己的良知的,只是我们的良知在世俗好处的 冲击下变得幽暗不明了,如果我们能够战胜这些,我们的良知就会明辨所有,就会为自己找到适合的 去路.
　　不人会直接告知你你应当怎么办,如果然有这样的人,那你所碰到的并非良师,而是一些好为人师之徒.人们 真正受益是通过旁听或凝听时反受到的启示,sale abercrombie,良多时候这些启发是不经意间取得的,仿佛你遥遥地在等候这个谜底呈现,只管你也在寻找,但你没有想到会在 此刻得到这样的启发.说到底,ghd iv styler limited edition,这依然是缘份.
　　兴趣经常是一种不自觉的力气,或者它是生成的,后天提代的环境使它清醒.这种兴趣就是一种独特的认知能 力,是人对某方面的奇特见识,是你以为必定是真的货色,这也是你知己体现.当你找到了你的兴趣后,你在察看 跟断定事物时会变得异常敏锐,你就能够一下子掌握事物的精华,因而这就是你的禀赋所在,是别人无奈替换的, 如果你将它施展开来,就是你的价值所在,所以兴趣与潜能密不可分.
　　与人交流是一种直接的发现自己兴趣的方法.一人交流目标是在于受到启发.当你来往的人是你所祟敬的人的 时候,很多时候也是因为你也想成为那样的人.孔子说无友不如已者,其实也是从你是否能够获得教益方面而言的 .
　　另一个失掉启示道路当然是书籍.书中记录了别人的成长过程,有的是直接的,有的是间接的,你读书的时候 实在是在读一个人,读起性情,读起抱负,logo polo shirts,读出你的影子来,也读出你自己的方向来,当然这是指善于读书,很多人并不善于读书,他们读书往往是在背书 ,这种读书当然不会有什么真正的用途.
　　无伦你读书仍是你交住,当你觉得最惬意的时候,阐明你已经找到了感觉,有了自我,尽管有的时候你还蒙在 鼓里,事后你可能才豁然开朗,这些都不大要紧.人很少是对自己完整了解的,人对自己的懂得往往是事后,所以 不用为自己没有先知先觉的才能而沮丧.人都是在各种场所的磨难过程中发明自己的,假如你关闭本人,不擅长与 别人接触,也勤得读书,那么你要上进就难了,更不必说发现自己的价值了.
　　当你做什么事情是在人不知鬼不觉的时候实现的时候,就解释你十分合适做什么事件.但人往往是不满意的, 人常常会向更高处请求自己,所以很多轻易舍弃自己的优点而就自己的短处.你说世界上岂非还有这样的糊涂人吗 ?我说是的,所以人所患乃不自知也,非人所不知也.
　　兴趣对每个人来说都不一样,但我们能够在参照别人的时候发现自己的兴趣.所以,我们决不能模拟别人,必 需发现真正自己的兴趣,所以发现自己兴趣过程是一个经过良心拷问的过程,kids polo shirts,是一个对自己客观对待的过程,在这个时候,自己能够克服虚幻的颜色,能够面对自己的现实,从而也知道自己 的努力方向.
　　那么,你有过一种无师自己通的感觉吗?如果有,说明你的良知已经发挥了作用.如果没有,说明你的良知还 没有发挥作用.当你的良知动员起来的时候.你的兴趣也就找到了.
　　人通过这个进程不是那么敏捷的,往往是在经由一番追寻后才发生的一种蓦然回想那人却在灯火阑珊处的感到 .

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